posted on Mar, 25 2012 @ 05:33 PM
Ok ladies I need your honest opinion on why I am single. I have read many of the other threads on why nice guys don't get dates, but none of the
advice portrayed my situation. This might get a little long, so bear with me because I want to give the clearest picture.
I'm 19, 5'10, 130 and have a very lithe toned body structure. I have short brown hair, and dark brown eyes. I rarely get angry, due to my jovial
outlook on life and good nature. I dress very atypical to most people, in that I wear a sixties band shirt, bell bottom whitewashed jeans, and a pair
of converse. I have been raised to be a gentleman, but to not take abuse from others. I am a very, cool and collected person, albeit slightly
idealistic. I have been told I have a great sense of humor, and I am very good a making people laugh. In school I was not one of the popular kids, but
i was pretty cool. I regularly talked to everyone from the preps to the nerds, and helped bring many of the students together, and helped get rid of
the hierarchy in school. I know women find me attractive, ( at least to a degree) and I am capable of talking to them in most settings. As a
sophomore I asked out a senior in the middle of the lunch room, surrounded by her friends, so I know I don't have a confidence problem. I take
rejection with grace, and try to still be civil and courteous. One thing I have to do when I find myself attracted to somebody is, I have to get to
know them, before I make a move. I understand that this next part scares some women I like; I am openly bi-sexual, but prefer women. Yet my
experiences with the opposite sex have been to say the least horrible. The first girl told me to call her, but she never answered her phone and
actively avoided me after she said yes. ( she came on to me) The second girl strung me along for two weeks, then told me, she was dating someone.
(unlike other two was a very sweet person, very shy and reserved) The third girl literally was what could be considered a deamon and ripped my heart
out, and played me for six months also ruining a great friendship along they way. ( this is not all of them only the important ones.) Having learned
many things since then I have come to a standstill of not being able to attract any woman's notice, no matter how hard or little I try. In conclusion
please ladies tell me what is wrong with me? Why can't I get a date ?