reply to post by Manhater
At it again manhater, like I said you got problems. With this teenage/child that is.
But I know you do like the drama a little, plus you must of been really bored and to much time alone before this mess moved in with you to actually
go trough it all, and still not have called the cops, fire department or put out a hit on them. Really you might yourself be a little crazy to go
along with this whole thing.
You know at 16 this child is already pretty much grown, and if her childhood was messed up and she did not learn to function in a quote on quote
normal setting. Then it ain't going to happen over night, or over a couple thousand nights. But its good that you are starting to put your foot
down, I would of broken my foot on her and her mothers ass by now as well, but hey you got to start somewhere. Next you should start acting more mean
and scary, I know she is bigger then you, and could probably pick you up and slam you....But hey, its all in the mind Manhater, make this kid and her
mother know who's boss, and make them fear your dark side. And while your at it slowly put them up to some work doing things around the house or
whatever, mostly to keep them busy.
Trust me Manhater the more busy they are with there own life's, or preoccupied with constructive things that they are, the less headaches you will
have, and the more happier you will be because of it.
But Its obvious this teenage/child does not know how to function among people, and the time when that is most imparted has passed. So when it changes
now it will bring along with it all the fun and biological changes that her biological current age will bring, as well as the psychs and other
fancy names that the ones in white coats like to make up and label things with. But all of that is just icing on the cake, I think Manhater that you
got to ask yourself if your want to go in the long haul. And I think you have already asked yourself this, because the fun with your niece and her
mother has just begun.
Fell free to shudder after the dots......
Ok enough with the shuddering, You know I have always been of the believe that fighting and a good beat down can solve everything, and most times it
But in this case, if you do it you might want to do it more subtly. You know somewhere down deep your niece is scared #less and knows her situation,
in fact she is probably enthralled by her situation, nay she is enslaved by her situation. And like a cornered animal that has nowhere to go she
has only the option of kicking and screaming when she thinks she is completely cornered. So you will know what to expect when all she gets placed out
of her element that she got used to for pretty much all her life, she has been a child if you take that child and dump her all of a sudden into
situations she is not used to...Surprise Surprise, what do you think will likely happen.
Most of these transitions from child to not grown up are supposed to happen slowly and over time years and years, I bet you every single person here
has transitioned at that pace to different degrees, and they still get tripped up by the little things that there childhood influenced them in
negative ways. It would be no different for your niece, by now you should know her better and see how she acts then she does herself or any of us
Manhater, basically she might be a crazy, spoiled rotten, psycho teenage/child, but as time progresses if she is left to her own devices she will
end up a crazy, spoiled rotten, psycho woman/child...And as you know, that is even more annoying and troublesome then what and were and what she is
at now. Oh and try not to give her to much fast food or MacDonald, they do put chemicals and additives which really should be called addictives in
that stuff, you know to keep them costumers coming back.
By now I think her system is so used to it, that it will be a withdrawal when she eats any other food, oh yes she will be craving the Mcdonalds like
a junkie. But once again slowly and if you have to just don't buy her that stuff, and if she does not want to eat what you eat...Oh well to bad, she
will come around when she is really hungry and knows that your serious. Besides your not made of money and she best learn to eat and take what you
give her, and if she wants anything else she can go get a job and buy it. Till then, a small treat now and then wont kill her but don't indulge her