posted on Mar, 10 2012 @ 03:50 PM
reply to post by nixie_nox
my mother worked how about you?
i would take care of the children they would be provided anything they need and a social worker would check to make sure the mother doesnt seize
anything for her own
there should be no money given to the mother if she cant take care of herself and her kids the kids will be cared for they are innocent
if shes in a bad spot because of decisions SHE made she should deal with the consequences
its easy to say shes a victim because guess what she is! but she allowed herself to be
again plenty of women get caught up in the same mess and the ones with a good head on their shoulders get out
is that a dick thing to say?sure it is but its true sometimes it better to hear the truth so you can deal with it than be buttered up and told
everything is alright
and you really dont want to play the victim of circumstance (oh its the childhood parents schooling blah blah blah) because the same logic could be
applied to literally everything
we are all a victim of circumstance
you help those who will receive it well
if theyve proven themselves incapable of being a grownup and taking care of themselves THAT needs to be adressed through counceling rather than just
tossing a check at her and saying "i know you may be incapable of using this to help yourself properly but i dont give a F i did my job"
its just tossing money in a hole until the real problem is dealt with.... whatever that happens to be
tl;dr when was the last time a problem was solved by tossing a check at it?
edit on 10-3-2012 by sirhumperdink because: (no reason