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Originally posted by KevinB
The comment above me Is disgusting.... Why can't both lifestyles exist and be valued? Did you ever think of that? Or we're you too busy buying into the us vs them mentality that you lost sight of the real issue at hand, wthat the feminist women want and deserve the right to choose whether to be a SAHM or a working professional. Just because you believe in being a SAHM doesn't mean you have the right to force that belief on every woman everywhere. Jesus, this is what's wrong with out world. Plus, feminists never said it was bad to be a SAHM, they just said they didn't want to be. But what would I know, I'm just a man.... O wait, I forgot, this meatspace I call a body has no relation to my actual being other then being a vehicle for it to travel in. For all I care I could have been female, and I would still be the same 'person'. No one has any right to restrict the dreams of ANYONE because of THEIR personal beliefsedit on 9-3-2012 by KevinB because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by timetothink
reply to post by KevinB
I agree with this statement....I didn't realize the op had an agenda against both sides of the spectrum.
People have to do what is best for themselves and their families.
Neither should have a vendetta against the other.
It is very hurtful when others devalue you because you didn't choose the same path as them.
And I wish other women would stop asking when I am going back to work......I work hard everyday, and it has enabled my husband to fulfill his dreams without worrying about the children constantly.
It works for us and we are both happy with the sacrifices we made.
The OP is describing the far end spectrum of both sides, which is like talking about far right conservatives and far left wing liberals or let me say there are bad in every group, but that does not define people as a whole.
In my previous comment I was speaking of the way over the top militant feminists who shove their beliefs down everyone's throat.