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A 5-year-old may be able to exhibit much more self-control, such as sitting for periods of time in a classroom and listening to a teacher's instructions. At the same time, a child this age will still be prone to meltdowns over something as small as a spilled glass of milk.
Yes, even though your big kid is not a toddler anymore, it's not uncommon to deal with meltdowns so here are a few tips to deal with them:
Go to the source: try to uncover the cause of your kid's tantrums. When does he start to lose control? Is it when he's tired, bored, hungry, or is something else causing him to stress? Sometimes when you understand where he's coming from, you can prevent the triggers and the tantrums.
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Make an honest assessment: do your kid's tantrums come and go, or are they more chronic? Do they happen frequently both at home and outside the home? Do they escalate to the point of aggression toward other people and destruction of property? If you are concerned, seek professional help to cope with your child's behavior.
Hang in there! All kids go through ups and downs, and you're not alone in dealing with tantrums. Try to be patient, focus on the positive and enjoy the ride.
Originally posted by VonDoomen
reply to post by Lasr1oftheJedi
for the youngest kids it is-
"He said showing the worst-behaved children how to socialise and giving them proper boundaries could prevent problems escalating." Thats NOT being DRUGGED. Thats NOT being sent to some juvie hall. That is getting extra attention to learn how to play nice. Is that really a bad idea? Solve the problem at this age when its cheaper, or go ahead and pay for more expensive incarceration at a later date.
Originally posted by VonDoomen
for older kids 5-6-
It was also appropriate for some five and six year-olds with the most serious difficulties to spend some time at institutes for the most unruly pupils, he suggested.
Oh noes!!! I am 100% for this. Looking back at my elementary school, I cant even fathom how much time of mine, my classmates, my teachers, and tax payer dollars were ABSOLUTELY WASTED, because of 3-4 (same)kids who would cause some kind of incident every day because they didn't want to read a damn book. I dont want my kids going to school with these kind of idiots. Ship them out and straighten them up. Im sick and tired of having our lives be dictated by rules that are necessary due to the lowest common denominators in society.
The only way to gain control thereby effect the learning curve of groups or gangs is to become the Alpha Male of that Group. Many in teaching...especially Females and some Men who think that Physicality is the equivelent of STUPIDITY...reject this concept...but I know it works. To be able to teach them...you must gain their respect...to do this...you must become one of them...and not only that...but the Alpha Leader who has the groups interest at heart and has their back.
Originally posted by VonDoomen
reply to post by Erongaricuaro
These kids would act out, throw hissy fits(scream), fling themselves on the floor and stomp their feet. They would refuse to stop, they would drag their feet when being removed from the class room. And yes, these were also the kids starting fights with people.
This has nothing to do with teachers being on power trips or americans being obedient and compliant. Its about every citizens OBLIGATION to become educated and be a productive member of society. Our society is one of rules and laws. Those rules and laws are for the benefit of society as a whole.
Originally posted by squandered
reply to post by SplitInfinity
The only way to gain control thereby effect the learning curve of groups or gangs is to become the Alpha Male of that Group. Many in teaching...especially Females and some Men who think that Physicality is the equivelent of STUPIDITY...reject this concept...but I know it works. To be able to teach them...you must gain their respect...to do this...you must become one of them...and not only that...but the Alpha Leader who has the groups interest at heart and has their back.
I think you're really onto something here - except that these troubled gang minded youths may be influenced to try harder to be outcast if there is an incentive and more importantly if you put these people to 'use' you give control of them to a power that might be corrupted - as usually is the case where children are concerned.
I think it can be handled if people thought more like country people do, or people from 3rd world countries and took responsibility for people around them. That and the massive bias there is against unruly males.
Sounds good on paper but what exactly will this special "environment" mean?
Depressive disorders affect approximately 18.8 million American adults or about 9.5% of the U.S. population age 18 and older in a given year. This includes major depressive disorder, dysthymic disorder
Pre-schoolers are the fastest-growing market for antidepressants. At least four percent of preschoolers -- over a million -- are clinically depressed.
Originally posted by Annee
Does this article mention brain scans? I can't read it right now.
There are many links to brain scan technology - - - recognizing potential dangers - - - even in young children.