reply to post by leemachino
Try to save the marriage first. Your children at least deserve that.
If you have to, do what it takes, if it means finding a day job.
And no, you can't pass like ships in the night and expect the marriage to survive. That is the fault of both of you.
go to counseling, get a good counselor. Only when you are sure you can leave with a second thought, do you do it.
People on ats always complain about the 50% divorce rate but yet the first problem someone has they all jump up and scream for you to leave.
Just because she says this, doesn't mean the relationship is over.
If you do the same thing you always did, you get the same thing you always got.
so go do something different, and try to reset the marriage.
Children come first. Period. None of this, you have to be happy crap. You both made the decision to have children, they come first.
Because splitting bills, holidays and households suck for them, and suck for you.