posted on Mar, 3 2012 @ 11:56 AM
It sounds to me like someone wants to have her cake and is eat it too.
There has to be an underlying problem here, so get to the bottom of that first.
And no need to air the dirty laundry here on ATS, if its personal, keep it that way.
But find out what the underlying problem is, address that and then see where it goes.
I cant promise you it will get easier, but I can tell you that it will, but it will probably get harder before that.
Communicate with her, and then go from there.
edit on 3-3-2012 by youdidntseeme because: (no reason given)