posted on Sep, 22 2004 @ 07:53 PM
When it comes to drugs and drinking it depends of if you let the substance take control fo your life. I'm 20, I've been drinking since i was 14, i
have been doing drugs (pot, speed, E's) since i was 15... i'm pretty succesful and i still do the drugs and drink, but i dont let them control me
and i wont let myself get addicted. To overcome shyness you either need to get drunk (which i know you dont do), or in your case just do it... you
gotta make a willfull effort to battle your shyness... i was shy once and i still am kinda but i repress the shyness coz it does me no good. Girls
like confidence so act confident... you'll be suprised at the results.
Each to their own i guess, i was brought up religious (islamic) but i backlashed in my mid teens against the (what i saw as) pointless teachings of
religion. I'm not saying that religion is pointless, i'm saying it really didnt relate to me in any way so i chose a life of fun and party. Ifyour
holding your virginity good for you, but be prepared to experience the most beautiful thing in the world when you finally let it go.
(feels good not to be arguing about something huh?)