posted on Mar, 5 2012 @ 04:56 PM
This is EXACTLY why you have to have multiple experiences when you're young and not be in a semi-married relationship as a teen....you simply won't
learn how to deal with this kind of thing.
1) She's cheating on you (maybe not actually sleeping with the guy, but I guarantee she's emotionally cheating on you...) You've already seen all the
signs and evidence, you just want the cold hard proof. Right now, it's likely just the thrill of the sneaking around...but eventually (especially if
it's the older guy) he'll know how to kick it up to actual sexual cheating.
2) You need to get out and ENJOY being at college. Go to a frat party, get drunk, wake up next to a girl when you don't even know her name (but use
protection). That kind of thing, man. Get your degree, get a decent job, pull down some decent bank and learn what you really want in a gal.
I guarantee you something else... You (and her) have NO idea what you actually want in a mate yet, so why are you so hell-bent on trying to hold on to
this relationship? Years from now, you're going to look back at this and go, "Man, did I dodge a bullet or what!"....
Something else...you kids today need to learn how to TALK in person vs most of your communication in text. Something you've likely learned in college,
is that nearly 70% of all communication is body language and tone vs. words. So, in your texts, you're only 30% sure that you're really getting the
whole message the sender is trying to impart! So, in all those texts, the chances that one or both of you is misreading things is astronomically
TALK TO PEOPLE.
Texting should be to impart quick info that can't be misinterpreted, not carry on deep conversations folks.
edit on 5-3-2012 by Gazrok because:
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