And another thing. If you really want to talk about this "masculinity paradigm" crap...
I have noticed that while females want to have the same rights as men, they still prefer to be treated like china. In other words, they want to choose
whether to be responsible or not, and interchange it day to day. They want to live the heavenly life, while men have no choice but to slave away.
IT amuses them, it relaxes them, it pleases them, whatever.
No. No, no, and NO! You don't get it both ways. If we work, you work. If you play, we can play too. If you want to go out and buy a new pair of shoes
every weekend, we can go and splurge at the bar every friday and saturday. We are not your personal slaves, and you are not goddesses who can choose
the schedule fate gives you.
You are not special. You are human, just like all of us. Live life like the rest of us, with its ups and downs. Stop playing mental games, and stop
seeing problems where there are none. Stop picking fights to take out your frustrations, and start realizing the guy you're dating is a douche, and
that man who's been your best friend for years is secretly in love with you.
You pretend you know everything, you get insulted when someone implies you don't...get with the program: YOU ARE HUMAN.
Start acting like it, and stop playing, "Little Miss Gift to the World." You are not perfect, and neither is your life. Accept it. And here's my
little confession: sometimes, I think women act the way they do because they are the most insecure of them all. They feel the need to doll up and play
games and do whatever...because they are lost and insecure.
Maybe if they stopped pretending to be helpless females, they might not be insecure, and then we'd all be happy HUMANS. Female =/= Insecure. Stop
acting like it does. If you wanted to rule the world, you could, just like any man. Don't act weak, don't act coy, don't be anything except a strong
woman, because no woman is incapable. Look at Stephen Hawking! He's a man, and he's crippled, and he's a freakin' genius! Now you're a healthy woman,
full of life and vigor, and you can't do as well as he has? Bull#!
Stop playing at being the damsel in distress. Stop playing at being high and mighty. Just...BE. Be yourself. Be strong. Be human.
I'm finished here...I'll leave it to the other men to get their points across. I just thought if someone was going to start a feminism thread, I would
interject some masculinity in the interest of equality.
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