Why do the nice guys go after the users?

reply to post by calstorm


When you're young, having a healthy mature relationship is a scary thing. So nice guys, just like a lot of other types of guys, run in the opposite direction. Towards something that isn't so intimidating.

After all, what's so intimidating about a loose woman? Loose women are typically the users, but since most young guys think south of the border, they're not going to read that deep into a woman. they're just going to dive in head first into the "loose" factor.

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I'd say the focus of society has changed and brought with it, a mistrust and lack of faith in the opposite gender.
It seems like the hottest girls marry for superficial reasons, even if they've been warned against it. Those people either learn the lesson or essentially torture themselves willingly by repeating it