reply to post by adigregorio
My ratio for guys to gals (excluding the 8 to 1 ratio limited to me) comes from the fact that China looks for guys over gals when births are
happening. Also, seeing a girl on the streets does NOT meen she is single
Good point anyways its like a 99.9% chance they are not single. But anyways, I don't get the whole china reference, unless you live in china.
This is 100% un-true. I know people only go after what they find attractive, and looks is a BIG part of that.
Not so sure about that, I seen more then plenty really hot chicks with really not that good looking dudes. I don't think it plays as much of a part
as it does from the other side of the fence. Now if you were a female, and your did not have the looks, then I think you would have more problems
then if you were a dude and did not have the looks. And I know this, because like I said I am a dude so I know how much some things can turn our
Now, can money cause the looks to not matter. Sure, but then they still have "picker issues" since they are dating the money, instead of the person.
Which brings me back to "Why would you want to date someone like this" (You being a "nice guy" or "nice girl". Not you specifically.)
People go for what they want or like no matter the games or ways and round about ways they go about it, money, looks, this, that, whatever, men go for
what they want and can get, and so do women. So if there saying one thing and go for another...Well then my friend, there lying. End of story.
But a "nice guy" or "nice girl" does not want females/males. They want one female/male, one that is not attracted to them for some reason. (Most
likely looks) Unlike you, or me, there is no "moving on". Instead it is time to complain how girls (or guys) always date the bad versions. Faulty
argument, correlation does not equal causation. If you could even consider this correlation.
I know this one dude. Hes a cool guy, not that good looking, not in the money, pretty average dude. Yet he gets lots of girls, like every other month
he seems to get a new girl. The dude is always on facebook even on his smartphone he is always talking to them. I think he has like 3 girlfriends
right now. And one even has a kid with him, and she really is pretty good looking since he showed me a picture.
You could say he is a player, now do you think any of those ladies do not really know what is going on...Sure they will say oh my godz never
knew...But a blind man in the dark could see what is going on with him and them, so yes they know...And they like it...And in time they will move on
when they want to and can, and probably to some nice guy, and so will he....Like I said bro, its all just a game, and that dude has game.
My advice to you or any other dude that wants to attract the fairer sex and based on what I seen, empirical evidence I suppose you can call it. If
you want chicks to be attracted then you got's to be bad, bold, and audacious, and if you dont want to attract the ladies you just have to be shy,
quite, definitely not confident and audacious, and worst of all would be if your afflicted with the nice guy or good guy disease.
But if your really a nice guy, then this would not even be a question, because nice guys don't like all women, just some women.....Dont make the
minions, make some rule for that shi t to, because there are no exemptions.
Heh, if I was looking for something then I wouldn't be missing anything. I only popped in here to offer some realisim, I have no desire to find a
mate at this time. (If at any time, relationships are a pain in the anus)
Ya that's the spirit, forget womenz..Go play some video-games or something, much more relaxing and headache free, then this whole relationship
However, let's assume I was looking for something. These sentences, like "It will happen when it is time." OR "It will happen when you stop
looking" OR "You're not missing that much." These sentences are real pretty, but they are far from the truth
I don't know there seems to be something to it.
We have relationships because we are READY for them. We are mature in our dealings with ourselves, mature enough to deal well with others.
It has nothing to do with being nice, it has to do with who you are. If the girls are not attracted to that, then you are SooL. If you are unwilling
to better yourself so that you can recieve a relationship, then you WILL be alone. But remember, it has nothing to do with "bad vs nice" it has to
do with "attractive vs unattractive".
Like I said, your right! Its all just a matter of what people or individuals define as attractive. You would be surprised all the idiosyncrasies
out there, and what kind of stuff people are into.