reply to post by sir_slide
Oh I'm sorry, sir_slide... that's a bummer!
There always exists a fundamental conflict between Truth and Love. Sure, honesty is important for any relationship; however, The Truth alone won't
We need to place our focus on love.
If your Conspiracy Research gives you meaning, and you're not spending a problematic amount of money and time on it, than your habbit ought to be
suistainable under any healthy and real relationship that is loving.
However, some people prefer to follow only
the Truth, and ask,
"What is a more prefect match?" and they choose to cast aside that fundamental ingredient of unconditional love to seek a more "true" fit.
I can tell you that being on a dating website right now, it is hard to respond appropriately to the question: "Oh what are your interests?" As young
minds are often "shopping" for that "perfect mate" who will fit them like a favorite pair of shoes and dates don't always feel the work is
necessary, as "there's someone perfect out there just waiting." Having an odd, minority opinion about something that most of the population is
skeptical/ignorant about, can raise a yellow flag to some and make you seem like "more work;" when in realty, ALL relationships take hard work.
We too, are on a dangerous path of Truth in our own way... because all relationships and friendships are seemingly glued together by the perceptions
of sameness. On our path of truth, the more we learn, the wiser we become--BUT ALSO--the more literally alienated we are from the rest of society.
We've all been taught that "the truth" is a great thing, and that it is the work of heroes to fight for what is true. But in these same stories, we
forget that the heroes are normally alone and even hurt by those who love them--they even lose limbs and sometimes their very lives! The path of Truth
is a dangerous and painful one. And the truth alone will not save us. Only love will. In an increasingly diverse society, we will certainly need to
re-double our efforts to love, as soon, finding that perfect match will be more impossible than it already is.
I'm sorry that you seem to have been hit by an unfortunate case of immaturity... good luck good buddy!
feeling better will take time, but it will happen