Originally posted by snowspirit
Wow, I only read the first page, and the last three.
What a bunch of jaded and cynical people.

She may or may not be who she says she is, you'll find this out only if and when she comes to visit. I hope she is real, if she is the girl in the picture, she's very cute. Hopefully she's nice, and not nutz.

I also know that you are who you are in your avatar, unless you have a series of the same guy
I remember you from when your eye was all bandaged up.

Facebook - not everyone can see into all facebook pages, logged in or not, mine is set with full privacy. I can even google myself, and get zero hits. Some people, depending on the country, are able to be hard to find.

Be very careful, even if she's real, some girls are really good at playing a guy, and taking advantage of them. Keep your guard up.

Good luck.


***if it turns out that she visits, and is who she says she is, you'll have to post a pic of the 2 of you together, for all the naysayers....

edit on 5-2-2012 by snowspirit because: (no reason given)

Thanks haha, but if she's playing me, it's not for money. She has 150,000 in savings and she offered to send some to me to help pay for my sister. I couldn't take it though, especially when she's not even here yet.

SO DID "SHE" skype you yet?

yeah, tell us!! by the way, Your dad is a cop?? how can you post that girls personal info and posting she has a boatload of money, and using your pic as your avi here?? your father, being a cop, has seen alot in his line of work, he must have had talks with you about being careful and what to look out for, etc scams etc

I find it hard to believe that you grew up with a cop as a dad and you are this naive??? does not add up to me

Originally posted by MegasAlexandros

Originally posted by snowspirit
Wow, I only read the first page, and the last three.
What a bunch of jaded and cynical people.

She may or may not be who she says she is, you'll find this out only if and when she comes to visit. I hope she is real, if she is the girl in the picture, she's very cute. Hopefully she's nice, and not nutz.

I also know that you are who you are in your avatar, unless you have a series of the same guy
I remember you from when your eye was all bandaged up.

Facebook - not everyone can see into all facebook pages, logged in or not, mine is set with full privacy. I can even google myself, and get zero hits. Some people, depending on the country, are able to be hard to find.

Be very careful, even if she's real, some girls are really good at playing a guy, and taking advantage of them. Keep your guard up.

Good luck.


***if it turns out that she visits, and is who she says she is, you'll have to post a pic of the 2 of you together, for all the naysayers....

edit on 5-2-2012 by snowspirit because: (no reason given)

Thanks haha, but if she's playing me, it's not for money. She has 150,000 in savings and she offered to send some to me to help pay for my sister. I couldn't take it though, especially when she's not even here yet.

They're called confidence tricksters

They will seem so genuine and try their best to make you fall in love with them, that's when their little "disaster" strikes and they need your help and because you feel in love for them, you offer help.

They'll tell you want you want to hear, like she's rich, independant, loves you etc etc.... then something happens!! Oh no... my bank has frozen my assets and I can't buy that plane ticket.... can you help?

It will start small, $50 here, 50 there so that it seems legit, then they'll go for the big one.

Trust everyone when they say this is a scam, weve seen it too many times.

I still don't understand why someone would reach out to a complete stranger online for comfort after their little sister gets sick.

This is all BS. You are a lier and have been playing a stupid trick on ATS.

OP...she was supposed to skype you yesterday. How did that go....You said you would tell us...still waiting....

And now I'm back! Yes we did talk after she found her webcam and got finished unpacking. She's even better than on the phone! I just don't see why you guys hate a happy story. I'm happy, she's happy. One and a half more months and we'll be together, so quite honestly, I don't care what you all think, and I never really did. All I wanted was to see if anyone knew the person or the jersey, then everyone decided they would mock me for falling for a scam, then say that I fabricated this whole story. Thank you to those who were a real help as to answering my questions.

PS:
Kiwi girls are sexy when they say chips

Originally posted by MegasAlexandros

Originally posted by snowspirit
Wow, I only read the first page, and the last three.
What a bunch of jaded and cynical people.

She may or may not be who she says she is, you'll find this out only if and when she comes to visit. I hope she is real, if she is the girl in the picture, she's very cute. Hopefully she's nice, and not nutz.

I also know that you are who you are in your avatar, unless you have a series of the same guy
I remember you from when your eye was all bandaged up.

Facebook - not everyone can see into all facebook pages, logged in or not, mine is set with full privacy. I can even google myself, and get zero hits. Some people, depending on the country, are able to be hard to find.

Be very careful, even if she's real, some girls are really good at playing a guy, and taking advantage of them. Keep your guard up.

Good luck.


***if it turns out that she visits, and is who she says she is, you'll have to post a pic of the 2 of you together, for all the naysayers....

edit on 5-2-2012 by snowspirit because: (no reason given)

Thanks haha, but if she's playing me, it's not for money. She has 150,000 in savings and she offered to send some to me to help pay for my sister. I couldn't take it though, especially when she's not even here yet.

naysayers, listen buddy at best were trying to stop you, from meeting a sick twisted mad, who wants to hurt you.
at worst, your gonna lose a relationship, with a girl youv never met once, who lives in a different country?

i mean sometimes you get on with a girl online and then you dont in real life, even if she is who she says she is, theres so many nuances and ways this could go. But long term you honestly expect its gonna result in marrige already, then your in need of educating about relationships.

even if you find the one you want to marry it does not always work, things like living thousands of miles apart might affect that, iv had relationships go wrong when we lived 5 mins apart.

ironically,in hindsight that was the problem lol crazy girl turned up even if i didnt want to see her lol weerd.

anyway use common sense, im not your mom whos telling you, you can be a star and life is a box of choclates and a bunch of roses and everythings gonna work out like in your dreams.

im a 20 year old guy from england, whos been there got the t- shirt and a suit from gucci, trust me

the chances of a girl thousands of miles, away whos got 150k in savings, and is good looking wanting a relationship with a dude thousands of miles away. is possible, but unlikely anyway, she looks like the kinda girl that goes for sport jocks or something, not a shakespear loving poet.

im not trying to be the bearer of bad news, im trying to stop you from getting bummed by a man called steve from nz who is pretending to be a teenage girl

I find it odd that one of the first thing the OP mentions is the movie "Catfish".... methinks this may be a bit of fun at the expense of ATS members.

I haven't read the whole thread and didn't even read the whole OP...


If it's true and has all happened by now then good on you OP.

If it's all bollocks and the OP just did it so everyone at ATS would think, "Wow look at the hot girl the OP got" then that's pretty sad man.


Either way, only the OP loses anything, nobody else.