posted on Jan, 27 2012 @ 03:20 AM
reply to post by OldCorp
Read the post, and wow, way too much to have to go through. Yeah, couples can break up, but hiding a child, for no reason? That isn't right.
Cry on our shoulders as long as you need to. Rant, yell, whatever.
At the least, you did find her, and got some time together, short though it may have been. From the sound of things, she knew you loved her. You
also did all you could to witness. I know, as a parent and a Christian, that this is troubling. Have a son-in-law that isn't willing to believe,
and know how hard it can be to get through to people. Just know you did what you could.
Her mother can manipulate things, and exclude you from services, but the cannot take away the love you gave your daughter, or the love she gave you.
I would suggest, if you are up to it, having a memorial on your own. A picture, friends, and a time to grieve. We need that to get through the
Wish there was something else I could say, but I know nothing will help. Have one only a little older, and don't want to imagine what you are going
through. Know how loss can be. Hang in there, rant at us here, and remember her smile, the times you had together.