Originally posted by Alyssa
I'm going to make this post very easy for you guys ok. All relationships may it be friendship or deeper are 100% shallow. There is NO love nor
spirituality about our existence in this reality. We are slaves to our basic primitive instincts that work on us without us even knowing
Disagree. You haven't felt love yet it seems so you don't get it.
1. Studies have proved most women will always go for a much taller guy in shape or fat. Instinct tells women that shorter skinny guys aren't
good providers. Some of the rules do change just a bit if that short male is of a higher status.
Studies? I don't believe in such studies. Did they study the entire planet? No, they studied a controlled group of people. I have never liked these
kinds of "studies" they are too bias. I have dated, tall, short, stocky, skinny, model material and so on. I dont go for tall buff guys. I go for
2. Most women have attractive male friends. Instinct tells them it's a backup male.
Back up male? Again I say no. I have many guy friends because my interests are more a field of men than women. Also my good looking male friends are
just that good looking male friends.
For men they take what they can get as long as you're loyal.
Really? That is kind of rude don't you think? You are saying men basically just settle as long as she is loyal?
Again I say no.
3. Again men are more open to different women if he isn't high status because he doesn't have many choices. Higher status males are almost in
the same level as the average female as in they have more choices.
Wow you are stereo typing and haven't a clue about men or women and I'm only on number 3. No offense but you haven't a clue what you are talking
4. The average ok looking female have many men to pick from. With this said, one can say it's the very reason most female can not understand
what it's like for most men who can't even get 1 girl to notice him.
This is laughable. Men and women have equal opportunity, some choose to speak up more than others. Men and women need to learn to act accordingly to
get the attention they want. Act like an idiot well you attract idiots or you attract nothing.
5. Model like women seem to have near infinite men of all status wanting have both have sex and start relationships.
And do you think these men give a crap about her on the inside? No...who wants that? I don't.
These women got it made because all they have to do is look super sexy and life gives them everything.
HAHA you think that is true you are sadly mistaken! Being good looking doesn't mean you get everything you want! Sometimes you have to prove yourself
harder and show you aren't just a pretty face, THAT is unfair yet it happens.
Model like men have the choices of average women. Even so as a hot male you still must work your ass off because women naturally look at
everything about you and coldly judge.
Again WRONG. You are very one sided in your answers.
You are either young, inexperienced or jaded....or a combination.
Only an extremely shallow person would "coldly" judge another.
6. Men are programmed to pass on the seed to many females. Women are picky because they want good strong genes.
Men just want sex and believe me men are just as picky about who they plant their seed into. You can be a sex crazed nut and plant your seed without
actually planting it...It's called a condom.
What does this say about our world? Well, if you're a short 5'5 naturally thin guy most women won't notice your existence if you have no
Not true again. I dated someone for 2yrs who fits that description and he had girls all over him, constantly. He didn't have anything, he worked
security at a college. He just knew how to approach women, something men don't know how to do all that well and the same can be said for women.
for some time I've even noticed that highly attractive females here got the most attention while most of the handsome guys are ignored unless
they say something about their job that shows high status.
Again you sound young and inexperienced in love. This whole status thing is superficial and someone who only cares about status is someone one
shouldn't want to have a loving relationship with because real love will never show.
If you're a below average male or female I really don't know what to say to you. I mean if you're really trapped as a below average person
society will treat you like crap and no amount of feel good Love talk will help. NO amount of confidence will even help these people.
You have no idea what you are talking about. This all sounds personal to me, personal like you need to go to talk to someone about the issues you have
personally with love. It's not society, it's your views.