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Originally posted by CharonIncarnate
reply to post by AwakeinNM
Id take the free counseling. But you dont need a professional to talk to, its called being a human being, having a degree doesnt mean anything. Forcing your wife to go to counseling is not good either. If she doesnt want to, she wont try to change.
Neither of you need to change, you are unique, and the more you change yourself into what the other wants the more unhappy its going to make you. You are both beautiful. How can you ask someone to change to meet your requirements? If she does not want you for being yourself then you should move on, because there is someone waiting for someone like you.
But your daughters are yours and they need a strong father figure to set an example for them. Same with your wife, she needs to be strong for them to show them people are not defined by their partner. This cannot take place if there isnt harmony in the home.
Originally posted by AwakeinNM
Interesting Development
I had never received so much as an acknowledgment much less an interview. I had also reached out to them with respect to counseling - to no response. Nice church, eh?
So I called him back and gave him a piece of my mind about how they do things there and that his call was coming a bit too late.
Originally posted by Starwise
Originally posted by AwakeinNM
Interesting Development
I had never received so much as an acknowledgment much less an interview. I had also reached out to them with respect to counseling - to no response. Nice church, eh?
So I called him back and gave him a piece of my mind about how they do things there and that his call was coming a bit too late.
First are you a MEMBER of this church?? Usually you need to be first for consideration.
When putting in applications for work do you really expect to be acknowledged for putting in that application??? It doesn't work that way.
Also, you gave him a piece of your mind?? Wow, maybe that is why you haven't gotten another job? You may come across as thinking you are better than everyone else.
Originally posted by type0civ
Alright buddy this thread was obviously a cry for help so do yourself a favor and once again read all the replies we've posted and the time we have spent on you and know total strangers care about you and your family. Take or at least consider some of the advice we offer. Get some guy friends to run your ideas by before you act on a bad one....please