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Originally posted by IkNOwSTuff
Sounds tough dude, my sincere sympathies.
Ive never been stateside but from what I can gather on here and other sources it seems like it sucks major ass at the moment.
A couple questions for ya
1) are you really sure this is what ya wanna do?
2) how often do u plan on seeing ur kids?
3) how much money will you have access to?
4) what sort of education/work experience do you have?
My recommendation would be to head to South East Asia, Thailand, Phillipines or Malaysia (where I am).
Theres a few reasons for this
1) the economy over here is quite good and educated or skilled foreigners (especially if ur white) never have any issues finding good jobs. Everyone I know whos looked has found something within 2 weeks that pays over $2000 US a month which is great money over here
2) any money you have will get you about 5 times further than it would in the US as long as you dont live to extravagantly, to give you an example a healthy 3 course meal here would set you back less than $2 US.
You can get decent accommodation in the middle of Kuala Lumpur (capital of Malaysia) for less than $10 US a night.
3) You may not be thinking of it right now but you will have no shortage of hot female attention. Just be careful if ur in Thailand as most of the girls who go for foreigners are after 1 thing, It is in ur pants but unfortunately its ur wallet.
4) The weather over here is awesome, 28-32C all day everyday. Takes a bit of getting used to if ur from somewhere cold but once you acclimatize ul never look back.
So in conclusion, if you need a break for awhile and have no prospects over there except to be on the run from creditors SE Asia is definately the way forward.
I guess the only issue for you would be the kids but if ur responsible and looking to provide for them Im sure you would be able to find a job that paid well enough that you could live comfortably and still send money back.
If you have any questions let me know, Ill be happy to help anyway I can.
Best of luck with whatever you decide
Originally posted by Akragon
reply to post by AwakeinNM
Seriously man!!
Have Hope... life is a test... one that you can pass but you have to be strong.. not physically... but your heart must be strong to overcome!!
Damn i sound like a hippy...
Originally posted by anthonygillespie2012
So you can't find a job, you're getting a divorce and leaving your kids like a coward? These are your kids and you need to find a responsibility to be a responsible father. I grew up not ever knowing or ever seeing my father. I understand you want a change in America's economic collapse but there are states that have jobs and a new opportunity but you cannot leave your kids out of your life.
Originally posted by AwakeinNM
Originally posted by anthonygillespie2012
So you can't find a job, you're getting a divorce and leaving your kids like a coward? These are your kids and you need to find a responsibility to be a responsible father. I grew up not ever knowing or ever seeing my father. I understand you want a change in America's economic collapse but there are states that have jobs and a new opportunity but you cannot leave your kids out of your life.
I don't want to leave them, believe me. Either way, my wife is moving out of state so I won't see them anyway.
It doesn't matter if she's in another state they are your children!!!! You can arrange this in court. She cannot take them away from you as you have a right to be there father
Originally posted by chr0naut
reply to post by AwakeinNM
May I suggest you grab a towel and a good stiff drink.
Originally posted by AK907ICECOLD
reply to post by anthonygillespie2012
Calling him or his actions cowardly is not a way to ensure hope or love in a fellow man. I mean wtf, have you been in this position before? be a little more supportive of someone in dire trouble rather than say he's a .......
If I was I mod I would delete your post, just saying..it doest help.. You must have it nice and a good life to be calling or aiming negativity at someone who's asking for advice..
I'll pray for you as well. Give him some slack, you should at least know his place before judging who he is, for all you know he might actually be stronger than you, in ways you blah blah blah
Btw, His new action may save the relationship of his family, how the hell do you guys know, calling him a coward, and in your lives you have never been, think real hard before answering that.. Some people, dudes let's help him rather than bash him for having a hard time in his life, no wonder this world is in such bad shape..edit on 16-1-2012 by AK907ICECOLD because: Added love, n more loveedit on 16-1-2012 by AK907ICECOLD because: (no reason given)