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Originally posted by Parksie
reply to post by needlenight
Psychotic people do not care what other people think and feel. If you care enough to make a post on ATS and expect people to feel enough about caring you are already dismissed. You are not a psycho.
edit on 11-1-2012 by Parksie because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by Parksie
reply to post by needlenight
Psychotic people do not care what other people think and feel. If you care enough to make a post on ATS and expect people to feel enough about caring you are already dismissed. You are not a psycho.
edit on 11-1-2012 by Parksie because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by needlenight
Something else you may want to know.
Lets talk about morales and conscience.
While I dont feel any difference between doing something good or doing something bad. I choose to do things, that I know is good and helpfull towards other people. Why I do it? Because that is the best way to hide. If people think highly of you and consider you a good guy, or in my case, silent and wierd by helpfull and rather friendly. You get to hide the fact, that you are someone others should watch out for, or keep in check.
My conscience was "destroyed" years ago, when a did something considered bad. I lived with the shame of it for some years before the feeling of shame went away completely, which according to my psychologist was probably what started, or "unlocked" this side of me, that I am now. My mind eventually had to drop all emotion for me to function. This started when I was around 8-10 years old.
If you were to look at my other posts here on ATS, you would see that I talk highly about peace and being good to others, helping each other and showing respect and instead of fighting about things, agreeing to disagree.
This is the "mask" that I have chosen to be the "real me" outwards towards other people. It is the "mask", I have figured would give me the easiest life and minimal problems. I show alot of concern about how to treat the planet, how we treat each other, because I know that the best way to hide amongst others.
Originally posted by needlenight
reply to post by Norro
No, I never experience anxiety, shame, or sadness over anything. The time I felt shame was many years ago. I believe that shame, harboring it and never letting it go was what "locked" my emotions far away. So that I could function and survive.
I did not feel relieved either when my psychologist diagnosed me. She explained to me what it was, that lead her to the diagnosis and I could see that it made sense. There was nothing more than me agreeing with her diagnosis. I did not feel anything about it either way.
I can not cry to a song or a movie. However I am able to understand why someone acts the way they do in movies, why they feel pain they do or even why they are happy. I am perfectly able to understand that one situation and a certain chain of events can lead to some emotional outcome. I understand emotions, I just dont feel them.
The absence of happiness does not lead me to depression or unhappiness. You could say that I am stuck somewhere in between the two. Perhaps indifference is the best word to describe it here. I do however fake happiness. At my grandfathers funeral i faked sadness aswell. I have become good at faking certain deeper emotions, but only because I have observed them up close.
There are times where I wish that I could experience love or even true sadness. But only out of curiosity. You see, I am very interrested in what makes us humans tick and why we do what we do in certain situations. I would like to experience these myself to have a better understanding of them.
I have sexual desires, but I have not had sex in over a year now and I dont feel the urge for it as such. I think sex is pleasurable, but it is not something I feel is vital. I also masturbate sometimes like everyone else. I get the same release as any other guy.
Yes I listen to music. I like music alot. Currently I am listening to Owl City, Coldplay and The Fray.
Originally posted by MischeviousElf
reply to post by greeneyedleo
Personally I feel you might be ever so slightly Aspergic on the far end of the scale just on it.
Elf
Originally posted by needlenight
reply to post by greeneyedleo
I welcome your opinion, it is surprising to see someone think different of me. But I am afraid I trust the word of my psychologist over yours.
Please explain to me where these deeper feelings are in my posts. I am interrested in hearing it.
Do not think of all sociopaths of being downright evil as such. As I have said before, I probably do have emotions locked away deep down inside, the problem is that I can not feel them, nor remember how they felt. And I can not get them to surface again. Which is something me and my psychologist is working on. There are many like me out there, some functioning, some not, others never really knowing what it is that makes them what they are.
What is different in my case, is that my situation comes from a psychopathic trait and something I did at a young age. That is of course what am not willing to go into detail or share here.
I do understand that this post may come across as a cry for attention and "uh look at me, im dark and dangerous".
I do have some sense of connection to my family
I dont get mad
I constantly think everything through, before I do something. I think long and hard about what would happen down the road.
I choose to do things, that I know is good and helpfull towards other people.
The bad thing I did, is not something I am willing to share, not even here
I believe I would be a good father
Originally posted by needlenight
reply to post by greeneyedleo
I welcome your opinion, it is surprising to see someone think different of me. But I am afraid I trust the word of my psychologist over yours.
Please explain to me where these deeper feelings are in my posts. I am interrested in hearing it.
Do not think of all sociopaths of being downright evil as such. As I have said before, I probably do have emotions locked away deep down inside, the problem is that I can not feel them, nor remember how they felt. And I can not get them to surface again. Which is something me and my psychologist is working on. There are many like me out there, some functioning, some not, others never really knowing what it is that makes them what they are.
What is different in my case, is that my situation comes from a psychopathic trait and something I did at a young age. That is of course what am not willing to go into detail or share here.
Originally posted by needlenight
reply to post by pasiphae
No I would not say that I care about you being happy that I responded. But it is good that we are able to respond to each other and learn interresting things. I have learned that some here would not consider me a sociopath, which is interresting and surprising. I have learned that others such as yourself, are able to communicate open mindedly with someone who claims to be a sociopath. So far I have learned much.