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Originally posted by Meekbot2000
i didnt read any other responses but this is what you need to do.
Start a journal or log, add in any email communiactions etc you have with here, date time and sve/print all emails.
always express a desire and want to see/be with your child. (you should anyway but make it apparent)
get a lawyer
In so many cases in custody battles it turns into mom said vs dad said because there is rarely any documentation. if you have logs and times, dates etc they can be verified by call logs from a phone company. if she says one thing and then you have written proof the court will side with you as you have the documentation. the best case scenario (depending on what you want your future relationship to be with this person) is full custody of the child.
do beleive anything she says, ever. thats for a court to decide. other things you should not do. do not tell her you are saving emails and keeping written logs of correspondance. but at the saem time do not record phone calls as that is illegal and will discredit anything else you do.
Originally posted by FissionSurplus
What I'm about to write is going to sound racist, but I calls 'em like I sees 'em.
As another poster pointed out, you got involved with a lowlife "mudperson". These people breed like rats, but they especially like breeding with whites, so their child will have fairer skin, which they highly prize. Watch any hispanic soap opera if you don't believe it. She is not interested in marriage, only breeding, which appears to be some kind of rite of passage for these women. They use sex the way others use money, as a way to get what they want. In this case, the seed of some sorry sucker.
Anchor baby is right, but that is the least of your worries. Not only have you bred with this chica, you have combined your DNA with a liar and, most likely, a pyscho. Don't be surprised if she disappears somewhere with your kid after you're sued for child support. You never see your kid again, her whole family will tell this kid lies about how you're dead or run off somewhere, and you'll be nothing but an ATM for her.
Not only do these chicks give hoes a bad name, but I'm fairly certain your kid is only the first of many.
When you're older, you will certainly see the error of your ways, as all you will be able to afford will be a cheap apartment and a compact car, because a big chunk of your paycheck is going to a kid she makes sure you'll never get to see.
I find it hard to feel sorry for you, because you should have enough smarts, being as you're in college, but I certainly feel sorry for the little nino, who will grow up amongst cheaters, liars, and various other illegals bilking the system.
My apologies for offending anybody, but my harsh talk comes from years of experience living around that culture, and not from stereotypical hearsay.
California paternity law authorizes blood tests in cases where parentage is disputed. The mother, child, and alleged father will be required to submit to these blood tests. If a party refuses to submit to blood tests then the court has the power to resolve the parentage issue against that party
Can anyone tell me what the hell is going on?
Originally posted by Destinyone
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I agree with most of what you posted. At this rate, this will be another 3 mouths to feed, house, and provide medical assistance to. All on the taxpayers back. The OP has already stated he has no job, nor training for any that could provide for a family. Yet it's off to play family and daddy with no further thought of how to actually do it.
It makes me angry....it really does.
Originally posted by Mijamija
reply to post by FissionSurplus
I have many Hispanic friends who do not behave at all like this Chica....
This Chica sounds pretty messed up.
I can also tell you many similar stories like this that white women have done.....
I also have stories of women who are us citizens who do this.....
I also have stories of men who do this.....
My point is....there is no need to bring race, sex or nationality into this......the girl is simply bad news bears....
I met a girl in college we dated for about 4 months 2 of which we planned on having a child. Now from the get go there have been many strange occurrences. Like from the very beginning she told me that if we had a kid i didn't need to be in its life. I laughed and said like a sperm donor she laughed as well.