posted on Jan, 7 2012 @ 03:47 AM
From what I gather from your posts you're at your dad's house in California and have come into an inheritance and a pile of gold, and your Mexican
fiancee dumped you and your mother is involved?
Your story reminds me of a guy I know. He tells his family that he's married and life is good with his "wife" and his beginning family. But he's
telling half the truth and keeping up a facade to try to look like he has control in front of his siblings and parents. Really he's just living with
his hispanic girlfriend and they don't really want to get married. He knows that they are together for their son, and because she has a lot of
connections to support his social dysfunctions, and because he has some substance abuse problems that are gobbling up his money, he kind of doesn't
know what to do except to keep lying to the people who could help him the most.
To top it all off, his boon of inheritance wasn't really given to him; he took it from his gullible mentally ill sister. He raided his father's
bank account when his father was dying, pawned and sold off his father's possessions for more money, and took some of his sister's due inheritance
-- a valuable stamp collection -- for money to support his habits.
So in the middle of all his helplessness, he really is the source of his own problems. But back to the point: is the latina in LA scamming the white
guy? Of course. That's the idea: find a guy who is going to run into a lot of money, marry him, get the bonus, then divorce him and go for child
support for the rest of his life, maybe getting the house too. Maybe your existing family would benefit from some information instead of this sketchy
eloping. Good luck on getting your life together.