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Originally posted by pasiphae
and... i'm not really looking for advice. it's just a rant.
Originally posted by Taupin Desciple
Originally posted by pasiphae
and... i'm not really looking for advice. it's just a rant.
You posted this while I was writing mine.
Sorry....you got advice.
Originally posted by three1zero
not the disney fairytale happy ever after story you probably dreamt about as a kid
your story sadly is the normal chit that most people have to deal with
Originally posted by pasiphae
Originally posted by three1zero
not the disney fairytale happy ever after story you probably dreamt about as a kid
your story sadly is the normal chit that most people have to deal with
what else is sad is that i know quite a few divorced parents and NONE of them have had the issues i've had. the one thing i'm thankful for is that he never fought for custody. i know people who had to go through that. not fun. everyone i know who is divorced... the dad actually makes use of their visitation.
he's got a nice car, he always lives well, has had very nice and cute girlfriends (i've liked all of them). no one knows he shirks all responsibility except me and my family (and his family. they know but are all weirdly codependent)
Originally posted by tetriswoooo
reply to post by pasiphae
i know people like this and it may seem drastic but its the only thing thats gonna work out for the kids you and sort of your ex you need to tell him than since he wont pay child support he has no right to see the children and if he brings that to court his child support payments will come into question faster and you win if he just pays you still win and if he cares at all about his kids he will pay
hope that helps :-)