Originally posted by unworldly
There is such an imbalance between the sexes that it's light-years beyond ridiculous.
I can somewhat empathize with men who have a little bitterness concerning women and relationships, but I have virtually zero empathy for jaded, bitter women who bash men. The reasons why are simple: women have options; men don't.
Whereas a man is continuously well aware of his utterly pathetic lack of opportunities and thus, makes dues with what he can get; a woman--make that *any* woman--consistently has many multiple and various options to choose from in regards to dating and relationships.
Even good looking, educated, successful men are forced to choose from among the pitiful sampling of trolls that notice them... but a woman who is mediocre at best, or worse, has next to nothing going for herself, will always be able to date well out of her league. Therein lies the difference in the sexes.
If you are a woman, then regardless of what you look like, how much you weigh; the condition of your health or teeth; where you work (or even if you work at all); where you live; what kind of car you drive (or if you even have one); what your goals and ambitions are (or if you even have any); etc., so on and so forth... you will always--*always*--have your pick among dozens of potential suitors.
Whenever I observe a woman spewing forth some sort of sob story about what some guy has put her through, I can't help but feel as if my intelligence is insulted. Just based on the fact that you are female, your options, by default, are infinitely broader than mine... so because of the fact that you chose to love a jerk, I'm supposed to feel sorry for you? Forget it.
There are numerous men out there who are practically bleeding in their souls for the chance to love and cherish a good woman... and yet, as we all know, women are like flies--they buzz right past all the beautiful flowers in life to land on a clump of feces. When the stench becomes too much for them to bear, they expect the world to pity them. I don't think so.
In specific regards to marriage, yes it is foolish for a man to get married--for far more reasons than the few points touched upon by the OP.
This is very true. My friend Steve Hoca is the most passionate person on the radio about this subject. He tells it like it is, that women have all the choices in America and can still get dates, even if they are disabled, whereas a disabled man will never get a date. Everything is lopsided toward the women's favor. Here are some of Steve's truthful interviews.
If you like Steve's interviews and passion for truth, I've hosted an index of them on my interview page here:
The obvious solution to this lopsided scene against men is International Dating. To learn why, see this comparison chart of key differences:
edit on 2-1-2012 by WWu777 because: (no reason given)