reply to post by WWu777
Interesting little blog and rant...And it does sound like a match made in hell.
I would say that if marriage is to hard for you...Then don't do it.
And all of your little points seem to have a common theme to them, and that is...You seem to want to have the option of moving around while
married...to which I am pretty sure there are many married couple's who already do that, I think there called swinging couples.
But there are all kinds of people out there doing all kinds of things, really bro just pick your poison and stick to it.
But whatever floats your boat dude, and like I said. If it sounds like something that is hard, or you cant do it, then don't do it.
Though the only thing I agree to certain degrees with in that rant is this.
So you see, it doesn't make sense to invoke an artificial contract into a relationship or love affair that places a bind and lock on the couple. Why
not let love bloom, run its natural course, however long that may be, and die out on its own? Why try to force people to stay together with a chain
and lock, even if they shouldn't? That's imprisonment. It interferes with the natural cycle and flow of things, and with human will too. Love cannot
be controlled or tied down with a contract.
And yes it has become one big joke, were people just use it to get over on the other or to get something from the other, or to just get under the skin
of the other....And all in all people just naturally get together, and naturally fall apart from each other....Putting chains on that when it is so
obvious it will not work will not make it better.
But I am sure people have a choice of getting a clean split if they really wanted to. Yet there spite and hatred and there pettiness, gets the
better of them when such things fall apart. Which is understandable but not to the degrees people take it to. And they do like to dig as much as they
can in there former mates skin.
And off-course there are people just looking to get "things" using this process, it is pretty obvious. That for some its just a tool in getting
there provisions. In the female gender it is easy to see this, in the male gender not so much so...But ya you cant impose laws and rules on a natural
phenomenon, it just will become a tool for such things, and really...What happened to people just working things out by themselves, really the courts
are not needed at all.
It's all just one big parasitic feeding fest. Were everybody is out to get something. But really who do you think made it that way if not people
But thankfully for me I never had anything that anybody wanted. And also I that disease that keeps all females away... I do believe its called,
being broke, poor and a loser. And so I never had this problem.
It has it's ups and downs, but so far more ups then downs...I have no
complains...As I happen to like my loser life, if it were not so, then it would not be so.
But this # has to stop, its even beginning to annoy me. And I am pretty much blind, def, dumb and stupid when it comes to relationships and such
things, in fact this whole thing stinks to high heaven....And a match made in heaven it is not.
But yes marriage is a joke it seems, only it is not funny....So you do make some good points.
Let me know what you all think.
Birds of a feather flock together. And a raven or bald eagle will not match well with a pigeon....And you my friend are a pigeon, so why try to live
as a raven....As you can see! Your right! that marriage makes no sense.
edit on 31-12-2011 by galadofwarthethird because: (no reason given)