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Originally posted by Night Star
I have been married for 32 years. I don't think people take enough time to get to know each other before they marry. I don't think people know how important compramise and friendship has to do with a lasting relationship. I think too many people take each other for granted thinking the grass is greener on the other side. Too many people take their spouses for granted, not realizing what they actually have.
Be mutually repectful, don't take one another for granted and keep the lines of communication open. Marry your best friend and you can have a very fulfilling and joyous marraige.
Originally posted by calstorm
I am with you Manhater. I will never make the mistake of getting married again. Marriage=raising an over grown teenager or toddler depending on the day.
I do realize there are some decent men out there, but I am done putting forth any effort to find them. Being single is far less complicated and I prefer my space.