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John’s story
How to move on?
30 yrs old male, lives with partner and 2 months old son.
Chef in restaurant.
Acute psychiatric unit: threatened to kill his wife and 1 month old son.
On admission: had blood over his face and hands. He had injured himself by whisky glass.
Paranoid delusions:
There's a reason why this is a focus at this particular moment in time. Many of us can feel it around us - time has speeded up and everything on the planet seems to be coming to a head all at the same time.
I have a knowing that people interacting with BPD and those who have it are having the same experience: everything is coming to a head.
auditory hallucinations, delusional perception, attention and concentration difficulties.
Fortunately I was able to get into a dialectical behavioral therapy program made for treating bpd. I also began to see a therapist that actually cared. These people believed I could change my behavior because they have seen many just like me change.
Originally posted by BO XIAN
reply to post by galacticgirl
There's a reason why this is a focus at this particular moment in time. Many of us can feel it around us - time has speeded up and everything on the planet seems to be coming to a head all at the same time.
I have a knowing that people interacting with BPD and those who have it are having the same experience: everything is coming to a head.
INDEED. INDEED.
Interesting that folks with BPD are noting it. Can you elaborate, please? What have they said leaving you with that impression? How many have you been in contact with?
Originally posted by YAHUWAH SAVES
Anyone have any clue why the original "move in" was the first real signs of this BPD?edit on 12/29/2011 by YAHUWAH SAVES because: (no reason given)
I am such a person. I continuously, incessantly, seek to prepare for a battle which will likely never come. On the other hand-- I make a great first-responder in a crisis! I cannot imagine not being ready-- and find that the vast majority of humanity who have to think before acting in an emergency to be contemptuously relaxed-- until I remember that I am the oddball.
As my very wise therapist explained to me... I am alive because I am that way, disordered as it is, so of course I am loathe to change. Being hyper-vigilant saved my life-- and the lives of at least two others.
Morally speaking, how do I relax when I know that doing so can cost a life? I am what I am. However, and back to the point of the post to which I respond: That I am ready for mass disorder and violence-- does not mean the end is near. I just have all that stored potential and sometime wish the trigger would come to release it.
Yes. That is standard operating procedure for BPDs.
Behaving normally is understood by them at a high level, and so is knowing that relationships require them to do it, they appear as anyone else. It exhausts them, but they can maintain the facade for as long as it takes to secure the relationship. Then the monster is released.
When (and if) they are confronted with paying a price (such as being abandoned) for their behavior, they redouble their efforts to behave in a normal way until they again are exhausted from the effort or until they are in a situation they deem as safe.
Keep in mind, that from their perspective, their behavior is justified and their perceptions are accurate. From their perspective, you are only pretending to disagree, and they have learned that they can form relationships if they do not act on their perceptions.
When they attempt to reconcile their certainty that you must agree with their perceptions but only pretend not to as they pretend not to-- to reconcile that to your obvious sincerity in denying their reality... bad things happen. You become the "all bad" person.
When they become sure that either they are crazy, malicious and destructive or the rest of the world is plotting against them-- the only effective treatment is in the form of a tranquilizer dart gun.