posted on Dec, 15 2011 @ 10:20 PM
I'm sorry, I usually really don't complain much, so please bear with me. I am having this problem with my husband and him drinking
waaaaaaayyyyyyyyy too much.
I normally wouldn't even complain, because I myself am an alchoholic..... YES I said it. I have spent the last 11 years getting smashed every night.
Lately, I have gotten a job, so I don't really have time to drink, and I am totally fine with that, although I DO have a couple of beers/drinks when
I get home, just to get me to sleep all night. ( I have horrible insomnia)
Here is my problem:
I usually get off work at 6pm. When I get home, my hubby is passed out in his recliner, wakes up long enough to eat, then goes back to sleep in the
bedroom. I have asked him not to do this because it interferes with "our time" and to not have more than 2 shots of 100 proof vodka and a couple of
beers, as I feel this is totally reasonable.
Tonight I came home, he was passed out in his recliner, called me a couple of names because I wasn't here because he wanted me here when he was home.
Sooooooooooo............... fixed him some dinner, after he complained a little about it, and I took the time to fix it, he ate then went to bed.
Here I am feeling like dirt after working all day, him telling me I'm pretty much worthless since I started working, and trying to make this
relationship work (without me drinking constantly).
I need input PLEASE!!!! If it is just me, I will work on it... BUT I see some issues here that HE needs to resolve as well. If I am at work,
obviously I don't know HOW much he has drank, but sheeeeeeeeeeesh, do I really have to come home every day to this??
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.............................. And last week when I came home, he was more spunky than usual.... I found out a couple of days later
that he did coke that night.....
At my wit's end.... any suggestions?