A warning to all Male's ...., page 2


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reply posted on 10-12-2011 @ 09:49 AM by xxdaniel21
reply to post by i8miceb4



Obviously he noticed it, and rectified the word into a more narrow term further into his reply. The topic outrages many of us males, that thought control is often lost to context.

You and i both know what he meant. However, if you still feel there is a generalization, you can only change it, rather than brew on a single word.
edit on 10-12-2011 by xxdaniel21 because: spelling/grammatical error



reply posted on 10-12-2011 @ 09:53 AM by TheOneElectric
I was compelled to watch every second of that video, and I urge my fellow ATS members to do so as well.
Social equality is an ideal that we may talk about, but when it comes to walking the path, we find that there are various complications and obstacles involved.

How many times have we heard of a woman beating a man senseless like this? Not often, because it goes unreported. The man, growing up in a society where in which he is expected to treat the woman like a delicate flower, has no place to fight back. He is at a psychological, cultural, and legal disadvantage. He must take the punishment being reined upon his head and body. My heart sank with every slap, scratch, punch, and kick this young man took in order to follow the double standard that society presents men. When he raised his hand to defend some of the heavier blows striking his temple, one could hear passengers on the train calmly saying, "Don't hit her." Sure, those comments were for his protection, as the video made an excellent presentation displaying the will, fortitude, and inner strength of this young man...but there is something deeper. If he had defended himself, and struck back, I can only imagine how many other train-goers would have stood up and intervened.

The woman was a bit wild, and she proved this fact not only in her relentless attack upon the youngman, but her resisting arrest with officers. In this scenario, fate would have it that there was a video recording, multiple witnesses, and continued behavior even after police arrived; however, could one really imaging how the situation would have played out if these factors did not all fall into play? The youngman could have easily gotten in trouble in this situation for one well placed, defensive blow.

Our society is strange. The duality of man and woman is apparent on the physical, mental, and spiritual levels. Yet, we are expected to treat each other equally. In this equality, women are allowed to cherry pick the rights and protections that apply to them. The legal system favors them at just about every step. Men are tied and bound by these societal expectations, legal decisions, and social learning.

Let's not be mistaken here, for women are not free from the issues of society either. They are victims of a larger psy-op that men barely have to face. Their entire sense of self worth, beauty, and self esteem is manipulated in every ad, movie, piece of music, and form of entertainment available to society. This is an entirely different issue, but I want to let everyone know that I know society has beaten, and continues to beat, both genders into the ground with psychological terrorism.

So...my point in all of this...
Society has erred in how it handles such cases of domestic violence, especially when there is an expectation of equality prevalent within out culture and legal system. Women are allowed a special type of equality, one where in which they are allowed to choose what applies and what does not. They are protected and coddled. If one watching this thinks that this scene is bad, try being a 20 something and realize that women hold all the sway in dating these days. It doesn't matter if you're some ridiculously fit, knowledgeable, and handsome youngman with a mysterious yet kind disposition (I'm so full of myself), women at least 4 tiers down from you on a scale of 1 - 10 have the power, and exercise the ability to not only say 'no' but to make the scenario of you talking to them seem like an absurd thought that will never produce result.

Society is weird. My generation has a lot to fix. Let's hope that Israel doesn't strike Iran any time soon so that we may have something in the future to fix other than WW3


reply posted on 10-12-2011 @ 09:54 AM by jerryznv
reply to post by cerebralassassins



You assume right...18 years and never laid a hand on a woman...including my wife...but I would have not had that restraint when getting pounded on by a woman or a man!


reply posted on 10-12-2011 @ 10:29 AM by ReadyPower
Originally posted by i8miceb4
Originally posted by xxdaniel21
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post by i8miceb4



Where's the generalization? He quoted "feminists" as being like this. Hence the name "femenist". He didn't quote you.

Besides, why are you offended? He's made an extremely valid observation. Whether you personally agree with it or not is entirely irrelevent.

If you read his statement correctly you would of noticed that the first line read...
Females always complain about 'equal rights'


you are correct, I did say that which was an error on my part... my point was on feminists, who as explained a bit earlier, always complain about 'equal' rights... sorry...

just remember the ultimate rule... no matter what.. there are basically always exceptions.. sorry if you felt I labeled you in a certain manner.


reply posted on 10-12-2011 @ 11:05 AM by cerebralassassins
reply to post by caladonea



Since we are on the second page i guess this will be read and wont be clicked over, but the cold hard facts are that the majority of us either in here have all gone through that f_cked up stage of what it feels like to have been betrayed and no matter how brave or hardcore one acts in public view there is always a transition of that person when the home or bedroom door closes and we know how empty and bottomless that feeling is. So reacting to such situations truly is something that only individuals can answer on their own no matter who and how many times we like to hear or preach otherwise.
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