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Originally posted by DAZ21
Remember that book Fahrenheit 451 and Clarisse McClellan. She views the world in her own way and we don't know why but just seems to disappear. Most likely taken away from the world she loves.
This reminds me of your situation. You're on this site for a reason, you must enjoy it. Now someone is taking control of the way you want to view the world.
Anyway if this guy is the one then good luck. I just hope you don't regret your decision.
Originally posted by Vardoger
I call BS. Tell him to f off.
If he's already telling you what you can, cannot do then there's a problem. Agreeing to stop posting isn't compromising, it's being controlled. If posting on ATS is a deal breaker....then that is sad and pathetic. Doesn't sound like you share the same ideals at all.
Originally posted by Partygirl
I met somebody new this summer but we didn't get together until this weekend. I like him a lot.
We share a lot of the same values and I have been very picky about men. This is the first BF I've had in 3 years ! I'm taking it slow but I'm happy.
One thing is, though, he thought my ATS habit was "creepy." He kept asking me "why do you spend so much time on that creepy board" and yesterday he asked me to stop posting here, because he doesnt "like the kind of people who hang out on those places." He also said my avatar was "inappropriate" and I shouldnt put my real name here (which I have done before).
Well I think its a little unreasonable but I like him a lot so I am going to try to comply with his wishes for a while. I told him he can't control what I read online, he doesn't have that right, but in the interests of compromise I will stop posting for a while. I thought about it and I think that's fair.
So I am going to take a little break for a while, ATS. You have been a lot of fun for me and i think a lot of you are my real friends. But I'm going to stop for a while and see how it goes. Later I might come back. If not, I want to thank you for a really interesting time. I learned a lot and I will miss you.
Logging off and going dark for now.