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Originally posted by daryllyn
[color=mediumorchid]In my opinion, it's a little bit early for him to already be asking you to make changes.
If you just 'got together' this past weekend and he is already trying to make you change, you should run. Far and fast. And never look back.
This is how abusive relationships begin.edit on 7-12-2011 by daryllyn because: (no reason given)
Originally posted by LestatG
If you want him and he is being reasonable then do it.
Do not sacrifice love for a forum of people you do not know.
He may also be giving good advice. I have been on here many years and took heed of warnings, scare mongers and such - after you are aware and covered the basic topics, there is not much more to learn.
I have been on this site every day for the past 3/4 years and although I learned much - I suffered too. Hopelessness and depression set in at times.
If I may also be honest to say that the content and membership has gone downhill so much that I rarely find a well thought out and descriptive thread. (There are still some but not like it used to be).
Although my addiction to ATS remains it longer controls me and I feel that the info found here is not enough to satisfy my craving anymore - same old subjects rehashed by members who do not search properly or just flag hunting.
Obviously be careful, but forget about a website when it may lead to physical real happiness and maybe love.
Life is for living. Enjoy it with another.