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Originally posted by 1littlewolf
When my wife got home from work that day I relayed the days unfortunate events to her. “Do I look like a paedophile?” I asked her “Maybe I should have brought down grandpa’s plastic raincoat, god damn morons....”
“I'm sorry baby, I know you’re not going to want to hear this, but the fact is you do have a dick........ No one ever trusts guys around children”.
What kind of society do we now live in when a man is first assumed to be a sexual predator above the far more likely scenario that he is a father? What kind of message does this send out to guys that society itself does not trust you to be in control of your own sexual urges. Does treating every man as a potential rapist or child molester in fact exacerbate the problem? By saying that, because you are a man, because you posses a certain piece of anatomy, we do not expect you to be able exercise any self control; are we in fact creating that which we fear the most?
Many times when I’ve entered into a ‘mother’s’ room at the local shopping centre to change a nappy, I feel the stares of other mothers boring holes into my back. Some women look at me with intrigue that a father would actually be the one changing the nappy. Others look at me as if I just walked into some holy female sanctum with the sole intent of ogling some flesh as they breast-feed their kids and desperately try and re-adjust their muslin wraps. Often when I’ve changed my girl’s nappy somewhere in public, or changed her after going for a swim, I’ve noticed some (usually older) woman staring down at me disapprovingly.
Has society become so normalised to the media’s ratings focus on tales of child sexual abuse that every male is viewed as a sexual predator just waiting for an opportunity to strike?
Originally posted by MysteriousEyes1
reply to post by 1littlewolf
Thank you for sharing your story. What I don't understand is: we are in an age where fathers are taking more of an interrest in their children because more mothers are working and yet society gets suspicious of the fathers enjoying spending time with their children. CRAZY!
Originally posted by LilDudeissocool
Bottom line women think they have some sort of modern cultural permission to make passes at kids, and be pedophiles because of the very things you have pointed out which is the mythology that women can't be pedophiles. And if they are the sick idea that the victims are somehow lucky adding to society's dysfunctional attitude toward female sex offenders. This allows them to operate for the most part without detection as victims often do not report such victimization due to such systemic dysfunctional cultural attitudes.
Originally posted by Lykantroph11
But what ticks me off is that the modern society is all about letting children dress up as adults. What do you expect if you present your child to the world as a piece of pretty meat like those kid pageants ?! DISGUSTING! What if you let you kid dance and shake their scrawny booty's as adults would? Why allow kids to wear make up - bikini thongs ( YES THOSE ARE AVAILABLE FOR KIDS ). Kid models that try to look sexy I mean what in the world are you thinking? It's a twisted way of thinking, promotingTHAT what should be promoted.Kids should be kids as long as possible flat shoes, pigtails and bangs, no make up....