Sorry babe, but you do have a penis....... [WTB], page 7

Originally posted by 1littlewolf

When my wife got home from work that day I relayed the days unfortunate events to her. “Do I look like a paedophile?” I asked her “Maybe I should have brought down grandpa’s plastic raincoat, god damn morons....”

“I'm sorry baby, I know you’re not going to want to hear this, but the fact is you do have a dick........ No one ever trusts guys around children”.

What kind of society do we now live in when a man is first assumed to be a sexual predator above the far more likely scenario that he is a father? What kind of message does this send out to guys that society itself does not trust you to be in control of your own sexual urges. Does treating every man as a potential rapist or child molester in fact exacerbate the problem? By saying that, because you are a man, because you posses a certain piece of anatomy, we do not expect you to be able exercise any self control; are we in fact creating that which we fear the most?

Many times when I’ve entered into a ‘mother’s’ room at the local shopping centre to change a nappy, I feel the stares of other mothers boring holes into my back. Some women look at me with intrigue that a father would actually be the one changing the nappy. Others look at me as if I just walked into some holy female sanctum with the sole intent of ogling some flesh as they breast-feed their kids and desperately try and re-adjust their muslin wraps. Often when I’ve changed my girl’s nappy somewhere in public, or changed her after going for a swim, I’ve noticed some (usually older) woman staring down at me disapprovingly.

Has society become so normalised to the media’s ratings focus on tales of child sexual abuse that every male is viewed as a sexual predator just waiting for an opportunity to strike?

Canada is the most progressive when it comes to combating the myth that women can't be pedophiles. See here> www.canadiancrc.com...

I had two different teachers and one career counselor all female when I was back in jr. high and high school proposition me. One was my 8th grade art teacher. Another my sophomore English teacher and a career counselor the same year. The art teacher said a chalk sketch I did looked like it could be construed as a DK and balls lined up with a gaping pussy followed with a comment "that could be us with a wink." My English teacher had me stay after for some ridiculous reason bla bla a bunch of nothing. Then asked me for a hug stating that it hurt her having to call me on what she had me stay over for. She hugged me and began to rub my back. Started saying how good it felt to hug me. That I needed to find a girlfriend who was mature and able to have true feeling for me. Creeeeepy! Those two were not bad looking just that they were both old enough to be my mother. The counselor was old enough to be my grandmother though. That was the same deal. Hug and something about I "should practice having a girlfriend within a healthy context of role playing" in short "sex."

So I know firsthand this s-t goes on. My experience occurred some thirty years ago. No witnesses so how was I ever going to report anything? Plus I didn't feel threatened in anyway. I was more than able to play it off like it was nothing. However there are those who may not have been able too. I used quick whit. That is defusing the advances through humor and distraction which I employed in extricating myself from those situations.

Bottom line women think they have some sort of modern cultural permission to make passes at kids, and be pedophiles because of the very things you have pointed out which is the mythology that women can't be pedophiles. And if they are the sick idea that the victims are somehow lucky adding to society's dysfunctional attitude toward female sex offenders. This allows them to operate for the most part without detection as victims often do not report such victimization due to such systemic dysfunctional cultural attitudes.

edit on 10-12-2011 by LilDudeissocool because: (no reason given)