posted on Dec, 1 2011 @ 11:27 AM
**yeah, I came back and had to comment on this thread**
Nope, I dont agree with being gay and having kids.. FOR ME> I believe its not for ME. Its also not for me to point my fingers at everyone else and
their life choices. I can believe what I want and for my own reasons ( bible, other religion, etc) but I am not so arrogant I pretend to speak for God
nor am righteous enough myself to condemn others.
What a wonderful young man! Parentage of any combination doesnt guarantee having a child of any character. Gay parents dont condemn a child to being a
POS any more than hetero parentage guarantees character in a child. Ive seen hetero couples who probably shouldnt have a goldfish, much less be in
charge of raising a child.
I truly believe that the govt should have NO say in what a couple of any kind decides to do as far as marriage and its ludicrous that we must ask
PERMISSION and be RECOGNIZED by this corrupt joke we call govt to have any legitimacy. We should not have a paper that proves we are ALLOWED to enjoy
life as Americans.. gay or heterosexual. I understand the legal issue and there are ways to overcome this for all sexual preferences, I just resent
this lording over us and our choices by an impersonal and devious governmental system. Hetero or homo, we all DO have inalienable rights. My support
for homo unions goes way beyond the so-called moral argument or shouting of god hates fags bs. It goes to the fundamental right of a human being to
make choices for him or herself without the government involvement whatsoever. In my heritage there were homosexual unions and no tribal interference
or shunning. These people have committed no "crime" against another. They have not asked for special treatment or elevation ( most anyway, yeah yeah
Ive already heard the rabid gay side of things.. and find it as absurd as the rabid anti gay marriage side.) They simply want to make choices in their
own lives without having to ask permission or have their rights interfered with simply because of sexual preference.
Until the laws are changed, take advantage of the existing ways to legally hold the rights you seek and work to change the laws. If hte definition of
marriage never gets rectified, then make something new. You can only do what you can do. Some say the losers in this are the children. I disagree.
Children so desired by parents never lose. Children of gay couples may even have a leg up on hetero children these days because heteros seem to be
popping them out like candy from a pez dispenser and no forethought or regard for having the means to care for them properly.
FOr those who are all anti gay... if you still believe its a choice even with all of the scientific data available, dont bother reading this.. the
earth is still flat too. For those who understand it is not always a choice.. how would you like to be forced to be homosexual when your natural
preference is the opposite sex? What if your natural preference made it impossible for you to have a family unit, children or RIGHTS that others
enjoy? What if your natural preference made it impossible for you to enjoy any legitimacy in your partnership and impossible to care for the person
you love even when death comes? If you believe it is a bad thing or they will "burn in hell"... let them make the choice and let God do his job..
screaming about it wont get you a better seat in heaven. Live your life by example of your beliefs. If your beliefs are hating anything that you
disagree with and being a self centered nasty person who condemns others, prepare for it to be visited on you.