posted on Nov, 23 2011 @ 04:41 PM
reply to post by brommas
While I respect your anger and thoughts I cannot fully agree with you.
Sure the guy is a jerk and he went too far, I do not know the guy personally so I cannot say how his mind works or what was going on with him at the
time. I can though say I have been through this type of treatment so I can say without a doubt I know from experience what it is like. I know the
anger one gets and hatred and despise one gets from living such a life. I know the dark thoughts that sit in the mind of one in the daughter's
position.
I also know that holding such thoughts and negativity will do nothing to better you life. I know what it is like to see your abuser in a weak and
frail position. If you have a heart you can look at them and forgive, because you see that they are left powerless, afraid and lonely. They are
reaching out for love and to have someone near them. When you look at them you cannot help but forgive, sure I remember, but I forgive. They can harm
no one not even themselves any longer. They are left without power. Everyone screws up something in life, some more than others, some continue on the
life they were taught and given as a child.
The only way to break the cycle is to break it completely. Letting go of that sort of life is a start, letting go of the negative anger that darkens a
heart is the next.
You might not agree and that is fine, but as one who has been in that life I can say nothing more than forgive and let go.
Raist