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Originally posted by sweetstuff
This thread made me think of this song and I just had to share it.
Any normal 20 year old is not going to be interested in a man twice her age and even if she is, for long term she won't be because she's gonna want someone around to help father her children, share a life, not change his depends when's in HER 30's or 40's...so to all you guys saying hey it's worked out for me with my younger love...remember that comment when you are in your 50's and she's still young and viable and dumps you for a man closer to her age because that's what's gonna happen in 99% of these situations, to delude yourself otherwise is your choice.
My daughter is very pretty and only 13, will be 14 in the spring and I see grown men checking her out when I'm not inside their line of view and I got to think (if she was 20 it would still be creepy as hell as they could be her father).......how does one consider that normal? It's not like she dresses provocatively at all and society tells men this is "normal" to notice young girls, funny, I don't find myself ever checking out young boys. It's actually a repellent idea to me to be with someone who cannot even comprehend the same jokes, same music, same social references because they were NOT alive when I was a kid.
Sorry it is creepy and a sign of a low self esteem to want someone that could be your own daughter. IMHOedit on 20-11-2011 by sweetstuff because: more to add
Originally posted by mnmcandiez
reply to post by AQuestion
Young girls that seek out old men usually have some sort of lack of fathering issues and are mentally unstable. And a 29 year old girl is much different than a 20 year old.
A girl that is seeking out to be in a relationship with someone as old as their father.... it's just not normal. Think about it. Would you want to have sex with a 65 year old women? It just isn't very desirable.
I'm a 20 year old girl in college. Right now I know of NO one that would even want to get with a older dude. There are plenty of "creepy old guys hitting on me" stories though. I couldn't even imagine the backlash I'd get from my girl friends if I started to date a 40 year old.
I'm not trying to hate on anyone, it just REALLY is the truth. Of course there is always the exception..