posted on Nov, 20 2011 @ 12:53 PM
You're in you 30's mate, not your 70's. With all due respect, get a grip. I'm the wrong side of 35 and single but I have in my social circle,
females who range from 23 to about 45, In my opinion, all are fair game for me. I also look younger, people reckon I look about 32/33 and unlike you,
I don't have all my hair - not that I see that is anything to write home about though, if a woman wanted you just for your hair, I'd be a little bit
concerned personally. I'd be more concerned with how you carry yourself and how presentable and thoughtful you are as oppose to what does or doesn't
reside on the top of your bonce.
I think you might be reading more into this than necessary. A mate of mine is 54 and his wife is 40, they run a pub together ( my local ) and have
been happily married for around 15 yrs. That's like me going out with a 22 yr old. I also had a mate who was seeing a 49 yr old woman, he was ( If I
remember correctly ) 24 at the time - and they were together for around 7/8 yrs.
Apples and oranges mate, if you're on the same wavelength as someone and understand each other, it would be a shame to deny that attraction and
potential love because of age difference.
If you're on about purely physical attraction/lust, then it's only human nature. Women and men are obviously at their physical best in and around
the 20's mark but we all age at some point, that's a very short span of existence to be excited about, 10 years gone by and ( according to society -
not ME ) it's downhill in the looks dept. . I personally can find women attractive right up to a fine ripe age, in fact when I was a teenager, I used
to fancy quite a few of my moms mates. Women who were well into their 40's. I never ever mentioned it but I fancied the a$s£ off some of me moms
For me though, it's not even that much about first appearances, there has to be some attraction there obviously but I can find someone who I may not
have drooled over to be the most beautiful woman ever after getting to know her. If the chemistry is there, she can have me thinking about her 24/7,
age/looks may be immaterial, if everything about me is totally into her, that's enough for me. I'm sold.
Logic says this is something you might be experiencing due to the breakup you have had and the fact that you are getting older and still want to feel
attractive. By the way mate, you are FAR from old, you are still young and have a life ahead of you.