Originally posted by IAMIAM
Originally posted by MilzGatez
Yes that is a little ass whipping....its with a belt....... he wasnt hitting her with a stick, or a wire like old fashion parents will grab. Now if he
started with the belt then moved on to the fist then to other objects, or locking her up in a little room, not giving her food.... now thats abuse
...... but this? has nothing compare to others cases with a parent that really abuse their kids..
No level of terror is appropriate.
No level of abuse is appropriate.
You are not supposed to harm your children.
I am sorry it happened to you, but it was wrong to you, and it is wrong for anyone else.
When will we have a society that does not resort to violence to solve it's problems?
When parents stop teaching their children that violence is a justified way to force your will on others.
When will we enter the Kingdom of Heaven?
When parents act like angels welcoming a new soul into heaven.
When will we realize all of this?
When we realize that we are just children ourselves, with more time in service.
Well the terror and abuse you're talking about isnt parenting, is it now?
Lets stay on the subject of parenting, the outside problems doesnt have anything to do what happens in the household.
Dont be sorry for me brother. See, I'm Hispanic, I'm close to 30 and my parents are old fashion....... they handle it the way it was handle 50+
years ago in their country and they arent the only ones and not only hispanics but also others, it all depends on our cultures and our environment and
if you carrying on tradition , every culture do their parenting in different ways, what you may call "abuse" like in that video is just another
parents whipping their kids ass which is considered normal, but now if he started punching her,kicking her, whipping her more and more and harder with
that belt or with anything else and going to the face, now thats abuse no matter where you from or how you grew up or with your parents are old
fashion or not. There's is a limit.
For example, from my experience... if you're in a hispanic or black community, even if you a White, Indian, Chinese person living in a mix community,
If you grow up in that community and that community has been around longer than you were here on earth, A belt to the ass,legs a few times, less than
8. will be consider normal and just an ass whipping and the reason for getting it is because you misbehave in one way or another. It wouldnt be a
problem.... now if that parent started hitting her child any given time during the day for no reason at all and just like to beat on her child when
the child isnt doing anything wrong and physically punching and hitting her child with heavy object, thats ABUSE and not normal, and People in that
community will take action against that bad abusive parent.
This is why I see the video different than you. I live in New York, and we have pure communities with old generation people that came from their
country to here and they bought their tradition,for example Washington Heights (The ghetto) its FULLLLLLLLLL of Dominicans but also there's white and
others there nowadays but back in the 80's was mostly Dominicans and Hispanics. I got my ass beating like that and so did a lot of kids in my
community and I'm a sane educated well mannered individual that doesn't get into trouble and dont like trouble or drama...I dont like violence at
all and I'm a victim of violence by the hands of some few individuals, so I know what abuse really feels like but not by the hands of my parents,
They just made me be a better person, I have a lot of manner and a lot of respect for others and I only want love and peace..
We all got different views on things and my view on this is that this is not abuse, none at all.
but what shown in the video due to that girls condition was wrong and the father over reacted like i stated before