I have been in some interesting threads over the years on ATS, I have even created my own controversial thread about men and women. There has always
been a deep separation between men and women, even here on ATS.
But never one that was willing to except the differences between men and women, and what both really
Even here where we express our deepest search for the truth, we still communicate with each other with bias, hurtful words, and sometimes anger and
rage. Which usually gets out of control and no one actually takes anything from it.
A thread that is started by a man, usually winds up with his understanding of a hurtful relationship, and him having questions. The answers that he
may get here vary, from, other men standing by him because they have been through something similar, and have been hurt, and women adding to the
thread standing up for all women
IMHO, when asking these types of questions on a conspiracy website, the questions you may have alot of will be answered by a completely different type
of women. Women (this is my opinion) that frequent this site are not your ordinary women.
Yes, some have different lives outside of ATS, but many of the women here have their hearts set on knowledge, truth, understanding, and hope. This
type of women will not be the same women you will meet at a bar, so of course the responses will be different.
My being on this site, has shown me that I was not alone in looking for the truth, and I have since decided to pursue a relationship with someone that
was also trying to do the same.
Men when you ask about something that confuses you, and get a response from a women here on ATS, its not going to relate to you on the outside,
because there is a different mindset here. BTW, the reason that things may not always work out, and you not understanding may be that you
subconsciously are aware that you are different, and that YES there are women out there that have sense, and want more, but you cant take that
mentality to a bar/club/house party, etc,. But by being here, you know that those type of women are out there.
Women have the same difficulties as men do, especially those associated with living outside the box. Either we are persecuted for thinking this way,
or belittled because women are not supposed to understand these things. I can even honestly say that some women that you may meet will act like they
dont know anything, but secretly do, just not to have to deal with the ridicule.
Please no one take offense to what I am about to write, but I am sure that there are more lonely people here, then at most places. Not because we have
no skills with those we are attracted to, we are just stronger than many others out there that blindly follow the group, while most of us here, are
following that truth.
Women and men have the ability to make things work, we always have. What is happening to many of us, is that we have become comfortable in our own
skin, and dont think that we should change, and we shouldnt
If you are suffering whether alone or with someone else, its not always our faults, but the choices that we make.
I always think of it this way. For the amount of men on ATS, and the amount of women, there are probably 10,000 of each, looking for love, and not
finding it. I always wonder if one day, I meet someone who happens to be a member, how funny that would be. I know that the men that I interact with
here (through threads, and posts) that they are truly some good men out there, that want love, and support, and there are just as many women.
So, I say lets learn to be honest with each other. Men, if you want answers from women that are like minded then this is the place (relationships
BTS). Just dont think that you are going to find the typical answers, I am sure that can be found on a dating website.
Instead of us sharing what separates us, lets share what makes us the same. And as far as I am concerned being on ATS makes many of us the same...
lets start there