I wrote another thread about being happy because we want, because we can.
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Ill put things in a more simple way now.
Everyone wants to feel good and avoid feeling bad.
Feelings like joy, peace, compassion, love, fulfillment, security, there are a lot of positive feelings, this is positive energy.
Then there is all the negative feelings/negative energy: sadness, hate, anger, depression, desperation, suffering, loneliness, there are a lot of
these.
Of course we have felt bad a lot!! And it hurts even more because we also have felt very good: oh i was so well, look how miserable i am now!!
What happens is that these are our emotions and we let our emotions be manipulated by forces we cant control, forces outside of ourselves.
We have believed that to feel good we need thing that we cant control, that are always temporary: sex, health, money, girls, job, whatever, you name
it, there are millions of things we crave to be happy. And we are so dependent...
But they are not permanent, they always go away leaving us in the dark, with the bad feelings.
Its emotional manipulation.
You are happy and joyful, a guy comes and offends you, you get all angry, and that's when dark situations happen. Why? You could have stayed joyful,
just don't let anyone, or anything manipulate what you feel.
Be aware of your emotions and control them, feel what you want, be emotionally responsible, emotions are energy, energy goes around and comes around,
all the energy you put in this world affects you and others, and it will come back to you sooner or later.
My proposition to you is this: be aware of your emotions, control them, don't let anything or anyone control them but you, forget the uncontrollable,
temporary sources of energy outside yourself, you are responsible.
It may have many names: emotional control, emotional power, emotional intelligence, emotional freedom, emotional responsibility.
And everything we do, it doesn't have to have the purpose of getting positive energy. You can create it yourself, you are responsible.
You do things because you want, because it feels right, because you want action, you want to help, whatever, but not to be fed with positive energy,
you can create your own, you don't need outside forces to give you positive energy.
Be aware of your feelings, then feel what you want to feel. Don´t want to feel good? Fine, but at least, you do it consciously, you are responsible,
you are in control of your energy. That's the energy you want to put in this world? Its your responsibility, it will come back to you.
Energy can be a weapon or a cure.
Do you think that when you hate someone, that your negative energy is not heading for its target (the person you hate)? It is. Maybe that person will
go through the situation you so much wish them...
Be responsible for what you feel, stop being manipulated by others and by the world outside, be free.
Some people will say that there is dark and light, there is no stopping that, we are doomed to feel good and bad, we cant control it, its the way it
is, we were designed that way...
I don't think so. We were designed to evolve from that duality game, where first you feel at the mercy of forces you cant control, you live and learn
what bad vibes are, but your destiny is to free yourself from this game, transcend duality, be free, go back to the light with the power to create
light/positive energy, knowing what negative energy is... To be independent in terms of positive energy creation, we can create it, it doesn't have to
be given, to stop being dependent, to be free!
Then maybe you can stop the wheel of reincarnations on earth and go to another level of existence... (for those who believe in this)
edit on 30-10-2011 by Manula because: (no reason given)
edit on 30-10-2011 by Manula because: (no reason given)