reply to post by Misterlondon
I'm sorry to here about your loss. I don't claim to have seen anything abnormal and I'm always questioning things that may seem to be paranormal
or out of this world. Having said that, I understand how you must feel. I myself lost a sister in-law who was like a blood sister to me. Since her
passing my wife and I have had some hard to explain things that have happened around us.
Her name was Kathy, and she loved butterflies. After about a month after she passed, her daughter and my wife would experience butterflies that would
land next to them or fly around them. Her favorite butterfly was a particular yellow and black butterfly. I don't know the name of the butterfly,
but my wife does. One day we found this butterfly dead in our van. We don't know how it got there, but my wife couldn't believe it was the type
Kathy loved. We ended up framing that butterfly and is now on the wall in our sun room.
This is just one of many bizarre things that has happened since she passed. We both have had instances with coins and jewelry.
My wife can pick up on a lot of things. One day we were both visiting her grave when my wife got very quite and was sitting perfectly still. I was
walking around and looking at other head stones when I noticed she looked like she was in a trance like state. When I walked over to her, she started
talking to me saying Kathy wants to know why are you trying to hurt your heart. Your eating things your not supposed to be eating. That hit me like
a ton of rocks because a week ago I had a doctors appointment and my doctor told me I had to cut down eating red meat and sweets because my
cholesterol was too high. I never told my wife, because I knew she would end up nagging me every time I would eat something I shouldn't be eating.
My wife started tearing up and than she came out of her trance like state. She told me she saw her sister Kathy surrounded by something enveloping
her like a tornado. She said she never felt so much love and peace when she saw this vision. I'm not one that believes in religion, but I do
believe in a creator or God if you will. My wife also said that Kathy told my wife I needed to believe and she showed her a symbol of a fish. I know
a fish is related to Christianity, but that's all I know about it.
Anyways, I just wanted to let you know that what you experienced you should cherish, because not everyone can experience what waits for us on the
other side. I know I wish I can tune into things like my wife does, but I just don't have that gift. Many psychics have told my wife she has the
gift to communicate with the other side, and deep down my wife knows it but she's afraid to open the door. Now that her sister has passed, she's
starting to open up and has communicated with her sister telepathically in many of her dreams.
Do I believe it? Who am I to say unless I personally experience it. I believe you have a gift, go with it.
This is the type of butterfly we found in our van. I guess it's called a tiger swallowtail butterfly. We live in the city, so we don't really see
these types of butterflies except for the average white ones and the occasional monarchs.