It’s 2000 and something right? Realtruth scratches head and looks a bit puzzled.
With the advent of today’s dynamic career women and decades
past the original woman’s movement, it appears that men are still the ones having to make the first move. What the heck is going on?
I would also like to cover what some males seem to notice when approaching women.
There are many women these days that are extremely aggressive in the work force, they have risen to positions never dreamed of 20 to 30 years ago,
many of them have salaries that are equal to, or even far surpass their male counterparts, but when it comes to courting, approaching, or dating, the
majority of women still want traditional behavior. Realtruth scratches head once more, with the same puzzled looked.
When men are interested in women they will do two things, jump right in and make complete fools of themselves, or be the wise old fox, and wait to see
how women respond. Now from men’s perspective, when women are really interested they most likely will not run over and make fools of themselves or
even approach a male, so what makes them break the traditional barrier and ask a male out?
As a male I dare not even try to answer this question, because it’s hard enough trying to get our own plans together and make them work, let alone
trying to understand the female side, so I will leave the knowledge, and infinitely wise answers to the vast numbers of modern women, on ATS.
A Male’s point of view for knowing when females may be interested. (Yes Ladies! we do pay attention sometimes)
Things men seem to notice when women maybe interested.
The first one is eye contact, but this doesn’t always mean she is interested; we may just have some dirt on our face, so a word to the wise.
Second is the way she positions her body, for example is she facing the man with her arms crossed or her legs crossed, if so, she most likely isn’t
interest, so it’s time to get a clue and move on.
Thirdly, If the woman is lighting touching the man while in conversation, or keeping eye contact while touching then she maybe saying, this guy is
attractive or an interesting person, and that she wants to get to know you better.
Forth is one that many women do not consciously do, or even know they do, but when they play with their hair while talking or looking at the man, it
means they may be interested.
Many times us men get that feeling when that special woman is interested, but why do males always seem to have to break the ice, is it fear of
rejection on the woman’s side?
Could it be because our society and MSM seems to put so much emphasis on the way females look, their weight, their youth, and now how successful they
The Modern Women of ATS. Realtruth pauses and steps down off of his soap-box. The floor is now yours to speak, the men of ATS are listening. And we
promise to behave and be polite.
*ATTN: I will ask all ATS members male and female, to please keep their comments courteous and respectful when answering, since this is a passionate
topic and one that sarcasm may be taken out of context.
Positive and constructive answers are welcomed and appreciated, for bridging the great divide that many of us have in understanding each other. And
if anyone does answer indicate if you are male of female, since avatars sometimes can throw us off.
edit on 22-10-2011 by Realtruth because: Because spelling errors are really cool.