posted on Oct, 24 2011 @ 02:16 PM
reply to post by Realtruth
About saying bad things about the other parent, when it happens to me, because she's spent the whole day harassing me, they understand. They don't
like it, but even they understand one needs to vent at one time or the other.
But I ask them to forgive me when I swear after her... and I sit with them and tell her I know she has qualities, and ask them to remember those
first, whatever happens. She IS their mother, there's no denying that.
Sadly, she has no form of restrictions about what she will tell me in front of them, and refuses to ask for forgiveness for doing so. She says she is
rightful in her actions... she HAS to, as she says...
I'm not quite sure about that one, and neither is she. We can make a paper, and will ask for witnesses to sign it, but not
a lawyer. When I was a kid, a friend couple of my parents divorced. They did the splitting of possessions together, prepared papers and when all
was to their taste, they went to see lawyers to finalize everything. Under a month, both lawyers were siding with her, and menacing him to go to jail
if he didn't comply with their accord. Both were devastated! He went to court and pleaded to the judge he had to give 85% of his pay! He was left
with 115$ per month to pay rent, food, gas, etc.
The judge refused his case; it was as the law said, back then. He lived for a couple of years in a car until he could afford a place to rent...
Lawyers?... hmm... Not really sure, no...
Thanks for the hand!