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How many of you would pay a prostitute? Or vote to make prostitution legal?

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posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 08:35 AM
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does anyone know any man who is getting his sex, from any woman, totally for free?

if any girl is just having sex with a guy for free,its probably because she is young and niave and is probably around 18 or 19 and she has'nt yet put 1 and 1 together and figured out and realized the kind of power and sway that she is able to weild over a guy with her body,her sex...once she does...it will be sold to the highest bidder...

the guy who is willing to pay for her dinners,movies,rent,car insurance,jewelry,ect,ect,

lets say there is a really hot girl standing out in front of a grocery store,waiting for a taxi and i pull up next to her in a 20 year old, rusting, ford escort and another guy pulls up next to her in a brand new corvette.which one is she most likely going to take a ride from...the answer is obvious...which proves that all sex is sold...
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posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 08:36 AM
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I have visited numerous amounts of brothels over the years... the ones i've been to it seems to be the womens choice as to whether they want to do it or not.... i'm not saying tha women arent forced into it in some cases coz they are but just saying that the ones i've visited... the women have wanted to do it or so they said.... it pays more than the average wage they said.....

I' ve had a good chat with some... some have kids, some don't... some mature women in 30's others young 20's.... and most of these brothels are run by women now....

So i'd vote to legalise it coz it's not gonna go away anyway.

And no i'm not a sicko as the OP put it... i just dont have a gf/wife and need to have some every now and then... how else am i gonna get some? I don't go clubs/bars/pubs now so there really is nowhere else to meet anyone although i have tried Internet dating but those sites have turned out to be a waste of my cash and time... why pay the site per month to chat to women i can chat to on any chatsite? Most of the profiles are fake or have sexcam girls on them trying to get my personal info and make me pay for watching them on cam anyway....

I'm getting screwed either way...

And get this .... i'm one of the nicest guys on the planet yet i'm on my own because of women not knowing what they want in the relationships i've been in... wasted my time there really... only gained experience.... got no family of my own now and time is passing by.... every xmas holidays i'm on my own because of it.... and yes, it is the ladies fault that a nice guy like me has resorted to paying for sex!!
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posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 08:38 AM
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Originally posted by 0zzymand0s
reply to post by blocula
 


I've got two words for you:

Play guitar.
i did'nt realize you were shakespeare.instead of criticizing my writing abilities,how about commenting on the meaning of what i said...



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 08:39 AM
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Prostitution is nothing more than degrading yourself, and exploitation of women. If you are so hard up you need to "pay" to have sex, then perhaps you should save your money and spend it on a good therapist.

Don't you get it? A a society consists of morals and values. Once those are gone, we are nothing more than a pack of animals. Whomever participates and buys sex is enabling these women to stay in this position, while demonstrating the lowest level of their own depravity.

Instead of paying for a prostitute, there are many websites offering adult sex. Pay for a membership instead and hook up with a total stranger. Same thing, but it is legal. Why sink to breaking the law.

The law is the one thing that might help rescue these young girls. Most are sold into sex slavery in other countries.

Where is your compassion?

Pax



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 08:40 AM
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Sounds like you have some sort of disdain for old ugly men. Why the hate?

If the woman that he took in and eventually paid for sex is of legal age, then it is her fault also. She will have learn from her mistakes if she so sees it as one. Her body, her choice. Remember woman's rights?

Lots of homeless woman steal. In my opion theft is a lot more morally disgusting than a one fleshy thing entering another fleshy thing. Theft is rampant, yet we don't make selling goods illegal. That is a good thing. Why should prostitution be any different?

I know this may hurt for some woman to hear but Ill say it. Men have very strong urges to have sex - sometimes even with intimate objects - the entire time not giving one consideration about emotions or love. Its that powerful!
You cant go making laws to change a mans wiring. Its fruitless and goes in the exact opposite direction of freedom.


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posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 08:41 AM
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Originally posted by blocula
does anyone know any man who is getting his sex for free?

if any girl is just having sex with a guy for free,its probably because she is young and niave and probably around 18 or 19 and she has'nt yet put 1 and 1 together and figured out and realized the kind of power and sway that she is able to weild over a guy with her body,her sex...once she does...it will be sold to the highest bidder...

the guy who is willing to pay for her dinners,movies,rent,car insurance,jewelry,ect,ect,



lets say there is a really hot girl standing out in front of a grocery store,waiting for a taxi and i pull up next to her in a 20 year old, rusting, ford escort and another guy pulls up next to her in a brand new corvette.which one is she most likely going to take a ride from...the answer is obvious...which proves that all sex is sold...


Actually, my man is getting his sex for free. I have supported him for the last five years while he has had a rest from the rat race and builds a business.

Before that I paid half of everything.

We view it as a partnership, where we support each other...not a sex for money contract. I am in it with him and work while he builds value in the business. We're in it together.

This happens in grown up households across the nation. Sorry to contradict, but your experience of women and relationships would appear to be narrow.



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 08:50 AM
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Originally posted by batgirl
Whether if it is legal or illegal there is somthing degrading about
allowing strangers into your vagina for money. This isn't a disparagement on the girls who do this because
of bad circumstances. The truth is usually when a man goes to pay a girl for sex, he doesn't know what
her situation is, nor probably does he care. That is what is sad.




You have some excellent points.

Unfortunately our society/world has made sex a disgusting thing, if your not in a marriage or some type of a relationship.

If women sleep around they are whores, but if men sleep around they are studs.

The impact of MSM, Religion, and the morally just has a profound effect, and the way they react is why sex is looked upon as a sin, disgusting, remorseful act, and this appears to be instilled in many females from birth.

What if our society had a different view and the women that actually chose the career of being an escort, didn't have to hide or feel ashamed, they had the protection of the law, and mandatory medical checks, paid taxes, and were viewed as just another chosen career?

I know it's a far stretch because of the way people have been raised to judge, by their moralities/religion.

We as a society will watch two men pound each other to unconsciousness in a ring, a team of men crush and tackle each other on the field, political war machines destroy men, woman and children and all for what?

But when a woman or man choses to be an escort, prostitute or whatever other name people coin them they are trash, the last time I checked sex is a non-violent act.

It seems to be the way people see or relate to sex is the main problem society has, once everyone has overcome the indoctrinated fears and stigmas of a lifetime, maybe then sex will become a more significant part of being a human and how we view and treat each other.

Peace out,

RT
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posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 08:50 AM
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Read my post above yours about those sites.... i've paid for them and been on them chatting, trying to get a serious lifetime partner... all been a waste of time so far!! And cash!! In fact its actually the same thing in the ong run... i'm paying to use a website and chat when i could be down the brothel paying a lady to chat and also get laid in the process!!



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 09:16 AM
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legalise it
unlike marriage it has many advantages
1. Convenience - no Ive got a headache, too tired, not in the mood etc.
2. Cheaper than marriage and you dont lose your assets when its over.
3. No nagging
4. Variety not the same old...

Also cleaner, safer, better working conditions and better wages for the girls where its legal.



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 09:19 AM
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Originally posted by paxnatus
Prostitution is nothing more than degrading yourself, and exploitation of women. If you are so hard up you need to "pay" to have sex, then perhaps you should save your money and spend it on a good therapist.

Don't you get it? A a society consists of morals and values. Once those are gone, we are nothing more than a pack of animals. Whomever participates and buys sex is enabling these women to stay in this position, while demonstrating the lowest level of their own depravity.

Instead of paying for a prostitute, there are many websites offering adult sex. Pay for a membership instead and hook up with a total stranger. Same thing, but it is legal. Why sink to breaking the law.

The law is the one thing that might help rescue these young girls. Most are sold into sex slavery in other countries.

Where is your compassion?

Pax

I've known a couple of prostitutes as friends and they do it because THEY LIKE IT!!
They do it because they ENJOY SEX!!
They do it because they make a TON OF MONEY!!

One of them has bought her own house outright for cash... so tell me, who is being exploited here? These girls want to do it, they enjoy doing it, they get power from it and a great lifestyle.

Not everything is black and white, lets not stereotype here.



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 09:20 AM
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baring a 12 year old runaway or a person forced to do things they dont want which will always be a crime even if they leglised it.
Whos business is it if a man is willing to pay a woman and she is willing to take money?Yours ? the governments? the church? or hers and his?
what goes on in a bedroom is none of any ones business unless one party involved does not want to be or is to young to understand .
FArther more ill say this these two people have done nothing that can effect me wile you drinking has shurly effected me and many other people .



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 09:30 AM
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Originally posted by TruthxIsxInxThexMist

And get this .... i'm one of the nicest guys on the planet yet i'm on my own because of women not knowing what they want in the relationships i've been in

Oh here it comes - that old 'I'm a nice guy' cliche. If niceness was enough I'd have to sleep with half the neighbours!! There has to be a two way chemistry/connection. Either that simply hasn't happened (sometimes it doesn't you know) or maybe you are dull as ditchwater - or maybe you just have a very visible chip on your shoulder!

Plenty of us women are on our own and yes we are also 'nice'. Some of us are even attractive too! Yet every day we bump into other singles who aren't interested. And vice versa. It happens. Deal with it.
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posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 09:38 AM
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It's not that I am hating on old men it's just that I am talking about them taking in girls who are quite young,
you know as I said ,runaways. anywhere's from about 12yrs to 16yrs. And yes they tend to be old and yes
not very attractive men. I live away from the city and more in a semi-rural area. There isn't any open
prostitution around here, men more seem to take advantage of young troubled girls or women with children
who sometimes don't have enough [in spite of working] in order to feed their children very well.

I don't like that men around here take advantage of this. It effects girls in a very negative way. These girls
are not told when they are taken in that they will be expected to do something in return. They find out after
and then it's either give in or they will be back out on the street. It is not kind.

I am not a religious person and I know girls are sometimes laiden down with guilt because of propaganda
but it seems we are going from one extreme to another. From the guilt infested, condemning overly
puritan era to one where anything and everything is acceptable. Morals are not all bad, they can protect
us from being used in a bad way.

It's hard to be a girl in this society. You have guys going by in their cars sticking their tongues out at you
in a lewd fashion, you get propositioned in the street just by going to the cormer store. Every one of my
close female friends has been raped at one point or another yet none went to the police because
it was so personally humiliating for them, they felt it would somehow be made out to have been
their own fault. You sometimes have guys you don't know subtly stauking you. It is dangerous out
there for girls and women, in large part because of the over sexualization. Sexual assaults are on
the rise. Why do women have to be afraid all the time because "men have needs and they just can't
help that".

And , I am new at posting, how do I get my posts to stop being jumbled up.



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 09:45 AM
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Originally posted by batgirl
reply to post by Salamandy
 


It's not that I am hating on old men it's just that I am talking about them taking in girls who are quite young,
you know as I said ,runaways. anywhere's from about 12yrs to 16yrs. And yes they tend to be old and yes
not very attractive men. I live away from the city and more in a semi-rural area. There isn't any open
prostitution around here, men more seem to take advantage of young troubled girls or women with children
who sometimes don't have enough [in spite of working] in order to feed their children very well.

I don't like that men around here take advantage of this. It effects girls in a very negative way. These girls
are not told when they are taken in that they will be expected to do something in return. They find out after
and then it's either give in or they will be back out on the street. It is not kind.

I am not a religious person and I know girls are sometimes laiden down with guilt because of propaganda
but it seems we are going from one extreme to another. From the guilt infested, condemning overly
puritan era to one where anything and everything is acceptable. Morals are not all bad, they can protect
us from being used in a bad way.

It's hard to be a girl in this society. You have guys going by in their cars sticking their tongues out at you
in a lewd fashion, you get propositioned in the street just by going to the cormer store. Every one of my
close female friends has been raped at one point or another yet none went to the police because
it was so personally humiliating for them, they felt it would somehow be made out to have been
their own fault. You sometimes have guys you don't know subtly stauking you. It is dangerous out
there for girls and women, in large part because of the over sexualization. Sexual assaults are on
the rise. Why do women have to be afraid all the time because "men have needs and they just can't
help that".

And , I am new at posting, how do I get my posts to stop being jumbled up.

Being of the "chap" persuasion I have to say it's a perceived "danger"... I would guess that 99% of men out there are good decent, law abiding family men and your stereotypical view of men is just wrong.
Guess what?
Men like sex, women like sex... your so called God would have no one to pray for him if we didn't have sex, sex is good, sex is fun.

There are loosers and bad guys out there, of course there are but then there are "bad" in all aspects of life.

It's not ALL men and I find it sad you think that way.



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 10:01 AM
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Originally posted by paxnatus
Prostitution is nothing more than degrading yourself, and exploitation of women. If you are so hard up you need to "pay" to have sex, then perhaps you should save your money and spend it on a good therapist.

Don't you get it? A a society consists of morals and values. Once those are gone, we are nothing more than a pack of animals. Whomever participates and buys sex is enabling these women to stay in this position, while demonstrating the lowest level of their own depravity.

Instead of paying for a prostitute, there are many websites offering adult sex. Pay for a membership instead and hook up with a total stranger. Same thing, but it is legal. Why sink to breaking the law.

The law is the one thing that might help rescue these young girls. Most are sold into sex slavery in other countries.

Where is your compassion?

Pax



So, has it being illegal put a stop to it? Are our national morals better off now that prostitution has been made illegal?

Or is it just another useless law enacted because it goes against the delicate moral sensibilities of some?

Of course, I would be happy to discuss the philosophical ramifications of a society in which prostitution is made to run amock. It is a very impersonal way to get sex. In the modern internet age, it may end up being a very normal thing, as people are more and more removed from each other.



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 10:01 AM
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Would I every pay for a prostitute?...no

Should it be legalized?...yes

I for one work in the casino industry in las vegas. Contrary to many myths, prostitution is illegal inside the city limits. Prostitutes in the casino industry are unlike anywhere else. I run into multiple occasions daily where some tourist hired an "escort", and woke the next morning after being drugged to find their all their belonging missing, their bank account drained, and no clue of what transpired the night before.

The "turf wars" over the casinos have gotten so bad that its a daily occurence to find someone maced for being a female alone on the srtip, or a slap across the face with a razor between the fingers for being on some other crews property. The smut card peddlers line both sides of the strip with "escort" cards littering the streets. Children on a daily basis, even those from out of country, going missing and weeks later being found on the metro police's most wanted working girls list...it realy has gotten out of hand.

If prostitution were legalized, the system could be regulated. Every working girl would be required to be registered and tested for transmitable diseases. Then the penalty for not being registered can be increased. If you give them a legal means to operate, when they are arrested for felony charges for not adhearing to the law there would be no way to argue...the message will get out quick. This would also help to decrease, if not eliminate the position of the pimps. Why would a female work for a man that beats her and drugs her when she could work for a legitamate company and even the posibility of having health benifits. Not to mention, the pimps that remained would more than likely be those pushing the underage children into the streets, making it easier for the police to get a handle on, and crack down on the illegal child trade.

The sad truth is, prostitution has been around since before the bible..it never has nore never will stop!

All around, I truely belive by it remaining illegal we are not only making the situation worse, but also enabling them to keep the child trade thriving.
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posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 10:56 AM
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Just a side note to my last post:

In vegas there are just as many male prostitutes as there are females, some even with their own pimps...just the females get more of the media attention for the obvious reasons...



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 11:09 AM
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Originally posted by paxnatus
Prostitution is nothing more than degrading yourself.


Is working minimum wage flipping burgers at a Mc Burger Bell your whole life any less degrading?



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 12:42 PM
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I know that it is not all men and that there are decent guys out there. But the dangers I speak of are not
perceived. They are real. My mom's life almost ended at the hands of a deranged man.

My own life has been threatened in the past and I am lucky to be alive.

I kind of wish that more men knew what it is like from a women's perspective. Especially if you are a woman
who lives alone. You have to be constantly on guard of being targetted.

Anyways, this is getting a bit off topic. The only thing that seems to be off limits these days is children, but children are now being overly sexualized. Do you not see this. Where is the line to be drawn, when people start screaming for the rights of children to be able to be in sexual relationship with adults. You may scoff but I can see this coming in the future. This over sexualization of women and now children needs to stop at some point, if that is moralizing and imposing my view on others then so be it. This constant barrage of open and over sexuality is IMPOSED on US all the time. And no, I am not religious but when is enough enough.

Maybe there needs to be a massive change somehow in our overall mindsets to see everyone as valuable beings beyond words and precious souls first and foremost. To treat eachother with dignity and respect and compassion, maybe that is old school nowadays.

The whole reality of prostitution is to me a sad thing that it even exists. We are worth so much more. Everything has been reduced to dollars and cents, even our vaginas. It is sad.



posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 12:49 PM
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Originally posted by mutatismutandis

Originally posted by paxnatus
Prostitution is nothing more than degrading yourself.


Is working minimum wage flipping burgers at a Mc Burger Bell your whole life any less degrading?


Yes.




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