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Are there truly any good females left in this world?

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posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:40 AM
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That is your first mistake. There is no such thing as true love.

You can't love anyone if you can't love yourself. Believing in things such as true love and soul mates is only setting yourself up for failure.

first you got to accept weaknesses and that the person screws up.

that relationships are hard, and are a lot of work.

that is is not a fairy tale.




posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:42 AM
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Your last post was golden.

More people need to learn what you have written, the divorce rate would drop drastically.




posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:43 AM
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As goofy as it seems, the puppy love stage, it is nature's design.

Which is why it is so hard to avoid and so intoxicating.

But it is nature's way of making you procreate.



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:47 AM
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Originally posted by Habit4ming
So, assuming one has morals and values, once one finds a similar love-interest and gets involved--to me it boils down to: no cheating, no beating....and everything else is BS and can be worked on. Shop around, sugar. One must kiss a lot of toads before one finds the prince (or princess). Also, examine your own motivations. If your motivations are not "pure", you will continue to be hurt/disappointed. Life is a journey. We are here to grow and learn...it takes time to do so. Good luck in your future endeavors.


Great words of wisdom in your entire post.

The only thing I want to add - - which I've pounded into my kids heads and my grandkids.

YOU MUST BE ONE BEFORE YOU CAN BE TWO.

In other words - - find out who you are first. Go out in the world - - go to college - - find what you love to do - - then follow that dream first. Establish yourself in the career and/or lifestyle you love first. Then find a partner that compliments you and your choice of lifestyle.

You must have at least one solid common goal to build on.

AND very important. Once you have a child - - life becomes about raising that child. Or it should.
edit on 8-10-2011 by Annee because: spelling.



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:47 AM
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You are absolutely correct. That is why we must be 'the masters of our domain', to steal from the Jerry Seinfeld show.

In other words, for guys, think with the head that is on your shoulders, not the other one.



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:49 AM
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Originally posted by nixie_nox
reply to post by notquiteright
 


As goofy as it seems, the puppy love stage, it is nature's design.

Which is why it is so hard to avoid and so intoxicating.

But it is nature's way of making you procreate.




Yes - beware! Go for the real thing. Make a list and stick to it.



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:52 AM
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You are a moron and no wonder your not successful at relationships.

You know there was a woman on Watson and Cricks team? But she wasn't included as a partner because at the time, they didn't award science awards to women.

When you hear about the revolution, you hear about Jefferso and Washington, you don't hear about the women who protected and saved their farms and towns. Women also weren't allowed an education.

You my friend, are adding to the oppression in 2011.

Since you don't seem capable of using Google and want to hang on your archaic beliefs, women have invented thigs that people use everyday.

White Out
maritime flares
windshield wipers
Nystatin
cpr mannequin
Edith Flanegan invented the oil refining process and is considered one of the greatest chemists and inventors of all time.

A woman invented Kevlar.
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posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:54 AM
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Originally posted by butcherguy
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Your last post was golden.

More people need to learn what you have written, the divorce rate would drop drastically.



Experience - unfortunately - - is often the best teacher.

Its too bad youth often ignore the wisdom of those who have gone before them. As I did.

But - I just celebrated my 22 anniversary - - - second time around



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:55 AM
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Congratulations!

Sounds like you found something real!



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 10:56 AM
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Congratulations!



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 11:06 AM
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Because they come from an era where you just don't divorce. Guess what, there was still divorce even then.

Divorce rates have actually come down in the last 20 years.

The number one reason for divorce is money, not sex.

The higher your education and income, the lower the incidents of divorce.

So simplistic statements such as, no sex before marriage are that, simple and not accurate. Divorces vary from social group to social group, economic level, region, etc. It is not an overall number.



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 11:31 AM
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Originally posted by demonologist842012
Every female i have ever known seems to be some lieing or either cheating person who does not care about anything. All i see that is left is who... Is there any good girls left on this human planet?
Yeah, they're married.



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 11:40 AM
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No, if a girl would have said it about a guy I would have said the same thing. I'm smarter than to accept vast generalizations of half the population.



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 11:42 AM
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did someone lie or cheat on you? why are you segregating women into these two categories... or assuming that the girls you find attractive would do this? or maybe you haven't heard this song???



are you somehow exempt from the dating game?

lol...

the only way you know is by dating them ... and making your own conclusions...



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 12:53 PM
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I answered your question completely.
I told you to get a university education.
I told you that you will find a higher quality of desirable dates with a university education.

By telling you this, I am telling you that smart women with an education can respect other smart people with a university education, but, if you have no university education, there's really no worthwhile reason to qualify you as a keeper. There are plenty of worthwhile women, but, you have to be worthwhile yourself, and worth is valued completely differently by a woman than how you might see or categorize value in your self or anyone else.

If you have no university education, you are essentially worthless and have no future. Without an education, all you're good for is a tease and a roll. Keeper? Hell no. Why would anyone want to make a future with someone that has no future?

Am I insulting you? No.
I'm stating a statistical fact.
If you don't have an education, you are worthless because you have no future.
If you have no future, you will never find a decent girl that fits your ideal of decent, because once they figure you have no future, they're going to roll on to someone else.

Thus, like I said before; Go University.
Get a four year degree.

Calling women 'females' may be all the same to you, but, as I said before, if you want to attract QUALITY, you'll refrain from using terms that make a girl feel like she's a sex classification in an animal study. What means nothing to you may be found abhorrently offensive to others, especially the good quality women, most of whom are educated, or working on an education.
You can find those good quality girls at the university. Don't think you can just show up, grab a girl and be good though. Like I said, any girl, even the good ones will lose you quick once they decide that you have no future.
Thus, as said before, and as I will continue to say; go university, and get a four year degree.

How much more simple do I have to say it?
Every girl on the planet can be worthwhile good quality and never ever cheat on you if YOU are worth keeping.
If you have no education. You have no future. Why would anyone want to keep you around, no matter how pretty you might think you are if you have no future?
Education = Future. That's what girls think.
Education = Maybe I'll keep him if he proves it.

You have to be a keeper before anyone ever will want to keep you.



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 01:25 PM
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Look within yourself.



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 01:47 PM
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People without university have no future. Educated women = good women... That sounds like ricilulous generalization to me. Speaking about generalization I've heard most US women are bitches with only one huge money radar in their brains. Yeah when I try to imagine these well educated women, one picture imposes on me - dozens of "Hillarys and Condoleezzas"



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 02:38 PM
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I'm sure there are....somewhere.....I hope....



posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 02:42 PM
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Well this day and age its just so easy for these girls to have hidden agendas.

I've been dating girls since high school over ten years ago now. The 3 main girls I was seeing during that time all cheated. I then played it cool for two years and met a girl, moved in together, she was eventually my wife for 3 years, then she cheated while I was at work. So I got with her best friend hahaha. Then I was dating an accountant who I caught cheating on me when I showed up at the same club with my boys, broke that off.

Ever since then i've been getting down with random girls, prob 30 - 50 girls in the past few years and tell them I do not wish to have a relationship as this will no doubt break my heart again.

Do it up that way man, its the only way... no worries in the end

Edit To Add A Few Points:
- In all my cases money wasn't a factor, I was working for the government of canada up until 2 years ago... more money then anyone needs
- Education wasn't a factor, these girls are university graduates working for major firms, they know what they're doing
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posted on Oct, 8 2011 @ 03:02 PM
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I have met plenty of good decent women in my life.

You must be doing something to drive them away from you.



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