I had a similar experience about TF, or something that is somehow like a TF.
This is my story (I warn everyone this is not a cool happy story), if you have time, I aprecciate you read it, and comment about it.
It begin when i was like 10 or 11, in my school, there was a new girl in the class, pretty cute girl. I always thought that girl was tremendously
nice, and still think that way, although we have never speak more than 5 words. One day, when I still was this young, i had a dream that I think would
never forget and I never tell anybody about this dream.
In the dream, I was with her, in a round room, with the walls and the floor padded, and ALL absolutely ALL was painted in red, in the middle of the
room, there was a couch with some cushions all with different tones of red. We were in this room, hanging out, having fun, pampering each other, and
playing with the cushion, I remember that she was wearing a bikini (hehe).
After I had this dream, I suddenly starting having this feelings about her, this sense of curiosity about her. I always thought she was cute, but now
it was like more intense.
Now i will tell the things we have in common, and then, i will explain why this is not a happy story, well not from my selfish point of view.
First, our name are the same, my name is the male form of the name, and her name is the female form (like for example Daniel-Daniela)
We both had a stutter problem, but right now, I dont have it anymore, and I think she also dont. This is one of the reason that in somecases I was
shy. She also was shy, but with the time the shyness was reduced.
We have more thing in common like (not all, but some) types of music, movies, books
I have tested my name and her name in different test of numerology and stuff, and match, mostly 7 and in somecases 9 are our common number, the
numbers ALWAYS match. My birthday numbers and her, gives the result of 7, for example
We also share the zodiacal sign
One of my biggest mistake or the biggest, was to tell to some people in the class, that I like her, because what I least wanted was to divulge this,
especially to her (later i will tell why). But, she end up knowing, and i think this might made her think she should avoid me in all situations, guess
how i feel when perceiving this
Now I am going to tell some personal things about me. I dont live with my dad, i live with my mom, my grandparents, 1 uncle and 1 aunt, crazy house
huh haha... this is because my fathers had me when they were only 17.... about my dad, i often see him, he lives in the same town, and we usually go
out and share time, thats good... what is not good and this is why i writte this paragraph, is that i feel that in this kind of upbringing i have been
so suppressed and so repressed that i felt that I had not develop myself in a right way, although I am trying to change this. The consequences of
this, have been losing friends, in the girlfriend field, since the dad influence is low, i dont have this confidence to threat a girl as a girlfriend,
right now i am good talking and easygoing, but when i found a girl pretty I feel insecure talking to they... and i hate that. I must say that I was
raised in a strict way, ironically, right now i am a little rebel and against some authority figures, even so, I think my believes in ethics and moral
are strong and most important authentic 100%
Now to the major topic, i am always been a person who perceives things, like gestures, looks and stuff. I dont understand why, but i think that this
girl wants me to be "happy", or she likes me being happy, I think this, because in one day i was talking to some friends very casually enjoying the
conversation, and i see with my eye corner, that she look at me and smile, the same thing happened in one of the last day of high school, i were a
tuxedo she look at me and smile. Another things that happened, was that every oportunity that i had, i look at her, and there was a time where almost
everyday i look at her in the same moment she look at me, eye contact, this happened day after day for some time
Ok, i should tell, that when we grown (high school), our social groups was different, even in the same class room. in short, she was more social, and
more good looking, but always a nice girl, never prepotent or arrogance, always cute and a good person, and trust me i am good in knowing people way
of being. I also had friends, and some people say i am goog looking, and i am, but i need to improve that anyway
The reason that i didnt want to tell her, is because as time passes, the feeling keeps very strong, and I know that if I told her she would reject me
(because of the influence of social groups, and other stuffs), and most important she would notice how I feel, so she would end up feeling bad, i dont
want that. And in somethings i feel/know i am not good enough (the defective develop of myself), and i think she deserves the best mate.
In the next post, i will clarify some things.
edit on 15-10-2011 by Gabinho because: (no reason given)