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Originally posted by Jason88
reply to post by Xaberz
Thanks so much for the reading, Xaberz. All those points make a lot of sense, though I wouldn't say things are "perfect" right now, the relationship is in solid place and it looks like we will move forward. Thanks again for the excellent advice/reading, much appreciated.
Originally posted by InnerTruths
OP thank you for being so gracious with your time to volunteer readings.
If you have a chance, I would like you to please consult the I Ching for my question. (I am very familiar with I Ching)
I have two questions if that is alright with you.
1. Will I get better from my physical pain? (undiagnosed)
2. Should I continue on my endeavors of being a music artist?
Thank you very, very much for your time. I look forward to your response.
Originally posted by preludefanguy
hello!
I would love to get my tarot cards read by you !
How do you do a reading based of I-Ching? new to me...
thx!
Originally posted by PaleRyder
reply to post by Xaberz
I would also love a general reading too! Thanks you in advance for your reading!
Originally posted by Xaberz
Originally posted by yaluk
I hope you are still at it OP
where am i going with the current gf.
should i study something different to switch careers.
should i try running my own business
Hey Yaluk! It's finally your turn.
The first is the Eight of Pentacles. This shows where you are going with your current girlfriend. It seems you are working really hard on the relationship. Perhaps you do a number of things hoping they will impress her. Perhaps subconsciously, you have the belief that her love must be earned, and you are willing to do what is necessary to do that.
Next is the Justice card. Okay. So this is how the two of you might differ. It seems you give your love freely because you feel it is necessary to do this to earn her love. Hers is the complement to that idea. She believes that love must be earned by her partner for her to give it. It doesn't seem that she gives her love freely like you do. It seems she'll give it when she likes what you are doing, but when she doesn't like it, she doesn't give her love. I don't think she's aware of this, and she also does this subconsciously.
Perhaps how you were taught, you were taught by your mother or father that you must be extra nice to a girl. That you should treat her well, and do things to take care of her. Perhaps how she was raised, she was raised to not take guy's bull#. If he is good then she is right for her, if he is bad, then he doesn't deserve her. Perhaps their is an ego-trip going on in her head. She feels too good to put in the effort to love someone who doesn't deserve it. Perhaps she is a little hot and cold to you because of it.
I get the sense that you're going to have to do some deep introspection. Does she truly make you happy? It's important to ask if your ego might be tricking you. It seems you get a sense of happiness just from helping her. But this is you making yourself happy. Does she truly make you happy? Or could she easily be replaced by any other girl that you can help and treat well that will make you happy? Does that make sense. I feel it's about breaking cycles. And I don't want you to get hurt over and over again. Because if you find yourself falling in love with girls that are hot and cold, it doesn't seem good.
For your second question, I drew the Emperor. It seems you've put a lot of work into your current studies. It seems you're sitting very well in it too, meaning you're getting good grades and you are well suited for this career intellectually and skill-wise. I don't see why you should switch studies or careers. It would just seem like more work for you, and the one you picked seems well suited for you. My first impression is that you're having "The grass is greener on the other side" syndrome. It's like you like sitting on a fence. You like having both options available even though that's not possible. I'm the same way funnily enough.
The next card is the Eight of Wands. I get the sense that your life is already headed in a direction. You have a sense of purpose and you should continue down that path. I know there are distractions in your life trying to deter you from that path, but it's important to go on. It's like, say you're making a road trip to New York City, but you get distracted because you see a road sign leading to Boston. So you get on the freeway to Boston, but then you see a sign that says highway to Maine, and then you're like, oh man, I want to go to Maine, then instead of going to Boston you head there. And then you completely forgotten about your goal to go to NYC. So yeah, it seems like you made a number of plans and your life is headed in that direction, so it should be wise to stick with it. Otherwise you're going to be wandering around aimlessly in life with no direction at all.
As for if you should run your own business. I drew the Two of Cups. It seems this would suit you very well. It seems you have great ideas and you have the capacity of being a good businessman. I see you are also very open-minded and you can think creatively that will help you along too. I feel it would be a good path for you.
The next is the Six of Pentacles. I get the feeling that starting a business will cost you a lot of money, so this is something to take to heart. You are going to have to find ways to find the revenue to start your business. This is no small matter, so you must have the heart in it. Are you willing to sacrifice a great deal of time and money into your business? This would require a great deal of heart and determination. You must feel so strongly of your idea that you wouldn't be swayed. Otherwise you might spend all this money in your business and then feel the urge that you want to do something else.
Originally posted by Happyfeet84
reply to post by Xaberz
Thanks Xaberz,
I appreciate it and for my first reading it was rather a shock to see how negative it was. It is what it is.
When life gives me lemons....I will just have to make lemonade! Most of what you said I can not see at the moment. The reason my voice may be weak, may be due to my career. A lot of the time I feel my hands are tied and I am unable to speak up because my ideas and opinions are always shot down, even if it is for the better of improvement. There always seems to be another agenda at hand, instead of taking the common sense and logical route.
I am a friend person and my friends do mean a lot to mean and we always help and assist each other when in need. Can you elaborate if you have time please on what these dangers ahead may be? Past, present or future relationships, health, friends, family, career, finance or graduate school? I am at a turning point in my life and I feel the next chapter ahead is starting.
It is funny because I don't feel any danger, more like a journey is about to start. I am at this point in my life where I am unsure where life will lead me, there are so many roads I could take and I am unclear as to which one to follow, so I can see where the chaos comes into play. Also, if you have time can you elaborate on the ego thing? I never thought of myself as having an ego. Thanks again for your time! You truly have a gift and use it very well.
Peace and happiness!
Originally posted by Xaberz
The answer to your question about pain is Hexagram 23: Splitting Apart. This represents a house with the roof being shattered so the house will collapse. It's tied to the months October-November, which means it pertains to now, I suppose.
"Splitting Apart. It does not further one to go anywhere." I think it's suggesting to take it easy. If you can, stay in bed and rest. Basically, it will do you no good to go out and about when this will aggravate your pain.
"The mountain rests on the earth: The image of splitting apart. Thus those above can ensure their position only by giving generously to those below."
The top line is changing. "There is a large fruit still uneaten. The superior man receives a carriage. The house of the inferior man is split apart."
The changing top line creates Hexagram 2: The Receptive. "The Receptive brings about sublime success, Furthering through the perseverance of a mare. If the superior man undertakes something and tries to lead, He goes astray; But if he follows, he finds guidance. It is favorable to find friends in the west and south, to forego friends in the east and north. Quiet perseverance brings good fortune."
Another thing about The Receptive is that it is made up of Kūn, the Earth, and she is the Mother. It tells you to be strong like a mare. A mare has much stamina, but she is not violent like a stallion. The Earth is receptive and giving. She can heal your wounds, but you must be receptive to her. It's as if you have to open yourself up to be healed by her.
Originally posted by Xaberz
Second, should you continue your endeavors to be a music artist. The answer is in Hexagram 61: Inner Truth. It seems the answer is already inside you. The third line changes. "He finds a comrade. Now he beats the drum, now he stops. Now he sobs, now he sings." It seems there is someone whom you are deeply tied to with your music. Perhaps you both understand that out of sadness, can come rejoicing through song.
The top line changes. "Cockcrow penetrating to heaven. Perseverance brings misfortune." It seems you might crow, but it has no lasting affect. You might be successful with your music, but I wonder if you prove unsuccessful if you should persevere.
Your future is shown in Hexagram 60: Limitation. Limitations are not bad. There is only so much any person can do. There is no fault in that. Instead be joyful that you know what your limits are and that you are doing the best you can possibly do. It seems the limits are there for a reason, and to stretch beyond them is folly. I suppose it is important here to find out what your limits are, and to not be sorry for them. They are a fact of life, so let your limitations help you.
Originally posted by Xaberz
Originally posted by ThePublicEnemyNo1
reply to post by Xaberz
Thank you for your offer and it makes no difference which method you use.
1. Will I live past 85?
2. Is this possible Business Venture going to happen if I follow through?
3. Did they steal my idea?
4. Is he really deceased, maybe a question for a psychic but I think you can answer this?
5. Overall, will my life be good?
Thank you again for your offer
Golden Lightedit on 10/5/11 by ThePublicEnemyNo1 because: (no reason given)
Hi, there.
1. Page of Cups. To answer your first question, I think you will live past 85. It seems even at an older age, you'll still be young at heart, and it is that ability to always feel young that will keep you from aging as much. Perhaps you have always looked young for your age too.
2. Ace of Cups. Signs point to yes. It seems like you have a lot of ideas for this business venture and a lot of heart in it too. I get the sense that whoever is in charge that says yes or no whether it will go through, they'll see the heart you put into it, and they'll be more than willing to accept your venture.
3. Six of Cups. Did they steal your idea? This card doesn't seem to suggest anything as dire as what you suggest. I get the feeling they had this idea all along. Perhaps this idea stems from something that happened in their childhood.
4. Queen of Pentacles. You're probably right in that being more of a question for a psychic. Wherever they are at, I sense peace. I sense they are surrounded by nature, and the world is very bright for them. I sense a great deal of love too. This would suggest to me that they are at rest.
5. Nine of Pentacles. Signs point to yes. The woman in this card is very peaceful. She has a nice garden to provide her with comfort. Metaphorically, I think this refers that you'll have a lot of pleasant things in your life that will give you happiness. A nice home, a nice environment, and you've probably worked hard for a lot of this stuff. There is also a sense of freeness and joviality to you. Like even if things get hard, you won't feel so constrained. Like an acceptance that things will work out in the end. Is that much like you? If it isn't, perhaps this represents who you will become.
Originally posted by OwenandNoelle
reply to post by Xaberz
Thank-you so much, I really appreciate you taking the time to give me a reading! I find it very interesting and you definitely gave me much to think about.
Great Reading, tysm again!
All the Best to you!
Originally posted by polrwolf
reply to post by Xaberz
Hi
I am familiar with tarot but I have been understandably curious about this Iching you do. How does that work? and would a Iching reading apply to my current situation? I mean not to take advantage of your generousity and if I am pushing the limit then I do apologize. It is apparent that you are quite popular with all the posts so if I may ask do you know who's services I may be able employ to do such a read as Iching?
Thanks and keep up the good work. I will provide some feedback towards months end for your own sake of clairity. Take careedit on 23-10-2011 by polrwolf because: thanks