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Originally posted by Cinaed
reply to post by sinfall
It seems to me you are even more sneaky than your wife, and certainly everybit as disrespectful.
Perhaps part of the reaon she is going off to meet an old flame is based on her clear understanding you are the sort of person that hacks and sneaks and ignores boundaries..... Rather than choosing the honest and honorable route of simply asking.
Can't say as I'd blame her. I would be pretty depressed if I had a husband with so little honesty, integrity or so little respect for me he snoops through my stuff.
Originally posted by Cinaed
reply to post by valiant
Two wrongs never make a right!!! I don't think any adult relationship is healthy when either party feels they have a *right* to disrespect the other. The fact he snooped rather than asking about his suspicions makes me wonder if she KNOWS he doesn't respect her..... Hence her dissatisfaction with him. I am not condoning her actions either, but maybe I understand them....
Having been married to a man that did similar things. You bet I started lying to him, right about the time I no longer trusted or respected HIM.
There is more to this than just his side of the story
Originally posted by Cinaed
reply to post by valiant
I understand what you are saying but I can thing of about 6 honest ways he could have, as you say*protect his investment* The fast he chose a sneaky and disrespectful route, NO MATTER what she is up to shed quite a bit of light on his character to me. If this is typical behavior for him, then I think her actions might just be the natural result of a long term relationship that lacks trust and respect in both parties