Love sought is good but given unsought is better.....how true of a statement!, page 1

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Topic started on 29-9-2011 @ 12:19 PM by mblahnikluver

I have always loved that quote which is why it is tattooed on my arm. It means a lot but i never realized how much til recently. It is Shakespeare for those who don't know.

For those who don't get it it means, love is best when you don't go looking for it and it just happens.

I have been through a lot with men in the last few years and well I fell for my best friend. In a way I have loved him since i met him. We hit it off and I just never saw him like a bf because I was with someone. He is the one person who was always there for me no matter what and I just never saw it. I was blinded by love or what i thought was love from another. I didn't even see how he felt for me until he told me and that is when I realized how i felt but it did scare me because of what I have been through. He knows all of it and accepts me for me and to me that means more than he could ever know. He is so supportive and that is something I have never really had. He puts me first and again something I am not use to. I had to suck up some of my pride and just let him do his thing as a man. I love it and it is nice to feel wanted and know that that person wants you 100% and loves you no matter what...I am the happiest I have ever been and I wish I would have realized it sooner but like he said, "timing" is everything and he couldnt be more correct. I swear my love life would make a great novel or John Hughes movie!

I finally realized that the person I loved wasn't the person I was with or the person I thought I wanted to be with, it was the one person who was always there right in my face! The one who was there for me and loved me unconditionally. I am really retarded when it comes to picking up on these types of things!

I wasn't looking for anything like a relationship since I just got out of one a couple months ago (nothing serious) but my bf now saw me through that one and the previous. He never complained just gave me support and said he wanted me to be happy no matter what. That to me showed he really loved me and he is the one person I can tell anything to without fear of offending or upsetting him. Im stubborn and he makes me listen and I actually listen! He tells me when I'm being a butt and vice versa. We are a team and if you can't tell your partner anything then how can you live with that person and have a relationship? You should be able to tell your partner anything! I can with him, which is a first. My last bf's weren't that bad they just had a lot of emotional baggage and Im a lot to handle! I wasn't a priority to them and I see that now. It was hard to admit then cause who ever wants to admit that?!

I just don't know what to say.....I just want all those who don't believe in love to never give up! It's out there and it will hit you when you least expect it. Don't look for love, that isn't the right kind and it has taken me a long time to realize this. It will come when it's your time! Also don't let the past affect your future because that one person is out there for you and you might miss out if you hold it all in because of previous hurt. I know I did it!

I love this man so much and I am so thankful we are finally together. I just feel so stupid for not seeing it earlier. I swear love is blind...Every single silly cliche applies right now!

Another favorite quote: "Love from one side hurts, but love from two sides heals." <---- Shakespeare as well and also a tattoo on my back

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reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 12:32 PM by Stop-loss!

reply to post by mblahnikluver

This is truly heart warming and inspirational. I hope you find true happiness no matter the outcome.

S&F!

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 12:34 PM by DrumsRfun

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I knew this was your thread before I even clicked on it.

Things always seem to happen when you least expect it.

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 12:41 PM by mblahnikluver

Originally posted by Stop-loss!
reply to post by mblahnikluver

This is truly heart warming and inspirational. I hope you find true happiness no matter the outcome.

S&F!

Thanks SL

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 12:42 PM by mblahnikluver

Originally posted by DrumsRfun
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I knew this was your thread before I even clicked on it.

Things always seem to happen when you least expect it.

HAHA how did you guess?

Yup they do!

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 12:46 PM by FEDec

An important part of any relationship is letting your partner know when they are being a butt. In the most non-offensive way possible. Nice to see a positive thread where no one gets taken for granted on this board for once.

Good for you and much happiness to come.

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 01:01 PM by mblahnikluver

Originally posted by FEDec
An important part of any relationship is letting your partner know when they are being a butt. In the most non-offensive way possible. Nice to see a positive thread where no one gets taken for granted on this board for once.

Good for you and much happiness to come.

Agreed!!

yes it is nice, too many negative Nancy's in here lately.
Although I get their heartache and it makes me sad

I hope they find happiness!

Thank you

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 01:14 PM by ASC Nole

Mbla is my GF! I love me some Mbla!

dudes and dudetts, this chic is the bomb, bar none. I knew the moment I met her she was the one for me, all I had to do was wait out these other weenies she was dating. Im beyond happy to be with my love, I waited 6 years of being single to meet the right one and I have!

love you Mbla!

okay, already supported the Chinese launch today and now have to get ready for a Rusian launch. see ya'll later.

yay, I have the best GF in the world! for realz!

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reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 01:16 PM by mblahnikluver

Originally posted by ASC Nole
Mbla is my GF! I love me some Mbla!

dudes and dudetts, this chic is the bomb, bar none. I knew the moment I met her she was the one for me, all I had to do was wait out these other weenies she was dating. Im beyond happy to be with my love, I waited 6 years of being single to meet the right one and I have!

love you Mbla!

okay, already supported the Chinese launch today and now have to get ready for a Rusian launch. see ya'll later.

yay, I have the best GF in the world! for realz!
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HAHA I'll forgive your grammar lol I'll teach you!

Thanks

You crack me up!

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 01:18 PM by gabby2011

Its great you finally found "the one" for you mblah..hope you have many years of happiness..

I have never been negative about love.. real love that is.. not some ego based sexual ying and yang exchange..and I'm pretty sure your not talking about that.

As far as everyone finding their "true love" when they least expect it.. well.. not so sure about that.. the beginnings of romance in a relationship always have their "highs", its when you get "down" to the nitty gritties of life, that real love shows itself, and continues to grow, at a much deeper level.

I wish you all the best, and may your love continue to grow and deepen.

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 01:22 PM by DrumsRfun

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I am glad you waited for the douchebag train to go by....some of those dudes were just morons who didn't deserve what they had.

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 01:25 PM by mblahnikluver

Originally posted by gabby2011
Its great you finally found "the one" for you mblah..hope you have many years of happiness..

I have never been negative about love.. real love that is.. not some ego based sexual ying and yang exchange..and I'm pretty sure your not talking about that.

As far as everyone finding their "true love" when they least expect it.. well.. not so sure about that.. the beginnings of romance in a relationship always have their "highs", its when you get "down" to the nitty gritties of life, that real love shows itself, and continues to grow, at a much deeper level.

I wish you all the best, and may your love continue to grow and deepen.

Thank you, this means alot since we haven't always seen eye to eye on here

Yea it's something I haven't had and it's definitely something I am very happy about. Took me over a year to realize it lol

reply posted on 29-9-2011 @ 01:25 PM by mblahnikluver

Originally posted by DrumsRfun
reply to post by ASC Nole

I am glad you waited for the douchebag train to go by....some of those dudes were just morons who didn't deserve what they had.

ROTFLMAO!!!!!! This is great!

reply posted on 1-10-2011 @ 08:25 AM by Unvarnished

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It's really great that you found your love mblah! But after suffering from a breakup, my new motto is Disregard Females, Acquire Currency. =D

reply posted on 1-10-2011 @ 08:29 AM by InsideOfItAll

Congratulations on yet another thread about finding love.

May it last. For once...

reply posted on 1-10-2011 @ 08:59 AM by mblahnikluver

Originally posted by Unvarnished
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It's really great that you found your love mblah! But after suffering from a breakup, my new motto is Disregard Females, Acquire Currency. =D

I understand heartbreak believe me! Don't give up! It will find you!

LOL I like that motto

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