posted on Sep, 29 2011 @ 12:19 PM
I have always loved that quote which is why it is tattooed on my arm. It means a lot but i never realized how much til recently. It is Shakespeare for
those who don't know.
For those who don't get it it means, love is best when you don't go looking for it and it just happens.
I have been through a lot with men in the last few years and well I fell for my best friend. In a way I have loved him since i met him. We hit it off
and I just never saw him like a bf because I was with someone. He is the one person who was always there for me no matter what and I just never saw
it. I was blinded by love or what i thought was love from another. I didn't even see how he felt for me until he told me and that is when I realized
how i felt but it did scare me because of what I have been through. He knows all of it and accepts me for me and to me that means more than he could
ever know. He is so supportive and that is something I have never really had. He puts me first and again something I am not use to. I had to suck up
some of my pride and just let him do his thing as a man. I love it and it is nice to feel wanted and know that that person wants you 100% and loves
you no matter what...I am the happiest I have ever been and I wish I would have realized it sooner but like he said, "timing" is everything and he
couldnt be more correct. I swear my love life would make a great novel or John Hughes movie!
I finally realized that the person I loved wasn't the person I was with or the person I thought I wanted to be with, it was the one person who was
always there right in my face! The one who was there for me and loved me unconditionally. I am really retarded when it comes to picking up on these
types of things!
I wasn't looking for anything like a relationship since I just got out of one a couple months ago (nothing serious) but my bf now saw me through that
one and the previous. He never complained just gave me support and said he wanted me to be happy no matter what. That to me showed he really loved me
and he is the one person I can tell anything to without fear of offending or upsetting him. Im stubborn and he makes me listen and I actually listen!
He tells me when I'm being a butt and vice versa. We are a team and if you can't tell your partner anything then how can you live with that person and
have a relationship? You should be able to tell your partner anything! I can with him, which is a first. My last bf's weren't that bad they just had a
lot of emotional baggage and Im a lot to handle! I wasn't a priority to them and I see that now. It was hard to admit then cause who ever wants to
I just don't know what to say.....I just want all those who don't believe in love to never give up! It's out there and it will hit you when you least
expect it. Don't look for love, that isn't the right kind and it has taken me a long time to realize this. It will come when it's your time! Also
don't let the past affect your future because that one person is out there for you and you might miss out if you hold it all in because of previous
hurt. I know I did it!
I love this man so much and I am so thankful we are finally together. I just feel so stupid for not seeing it earlier. I swear love is blind...Every
single silly cliche applies right now!
Another favorite quote: "Love from one side hurts, but love from two sides heals."