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Originally posted by Calex1987so your implying because this person is un-hygienic that bullying is the answer? how about the child having parents who give a crap and teach him this stuff rather then you going around shoving him into lockers calling him names and embarrassing him infront of everyone because you think its funny. there are other productive ways to get a point across bullying is not one of them.
Studies have shown that children become more popular among, and respected by, teachers and fellow pupils if they repay hostility in kind. They remember such experiences more vividly than friendly episodes, helping them to develop healthy social and emotional skills.
The research shows that while bullying is not always character-building, there can be advantages to being shouted at, or ostracised on Facebook.
“However, among kids who are disliked by a peer, our research suggests it may be [helpful] for some young adolescents to return that peer’s dislike than to either not be aware or to continue liking that peer.”
The experience gives children an early lesson that not everybody is going to like them in life and teaches them about conflict resolution.
Originally posted by Calex1987
reply to post by Nosred
it would appear your science proves us both right as it sometimes "Does" work and others it does not going back to the if it worked for YOU does not mean it will work for them.... i can agree with lets call it "tease bullying" the kind where you are mocked made fun of ect......does help but the bullying that doesnt is the physical taunting the demanding of a fight because they are different ect....is unneeded and uncalled for....
so i say agree to disagree?
Originally posted by Nosred
Originally posted by Calex1987
reply to post by Nosred
it would appear your science proves us both right as it sometimes "Does" work and others it does not going back to the if it worked for YOU does not mean it will work for them.... i can agree with lets call it "tease bullying" the kind where you are mocked made fun of ect......does help but the bullying that doesnt is the physical taunting the demanding of a fight because they are different ect....is unneeded and uncalled for....
so i say agree to disagree?
The problem isn't bullying, it's that we're not teaching kids to stick up for themselves. Nowadays when you punch someone who's bullying you you'll get suspended from school, instead they want you to play the victim and rely on Mommy and Daddy and the teachers to make everything all better for you.
This is not how the world works later in life. Not everybody is your "friend", kids need to learn that and learn appropriate ways to handle that early on.
Originally posted by Calex1987
see now i will full heartily agree with you...when i was being raised i was always taught two things...first if you can walk away do so....if the problem continues to follow you turn around and kick this snot out of it....and after this if it does not get the point do it again...eventually they will take the hint...and fact that has been proven most bullies not all will f off if you stand up to them for the sheer fact if you can do it others can to.
see now i will full heartily agree with you...when i was being raised i was always taught two things...first if you can walk away do so....if the problem continues to follow you turn around and kick this snot out of it....and after this if it does not get the point do it again...eventually they will take the hint...and fact that has been proven most bullies not all will f off if you stand up to them for the sheer fact if you can do it others can to.
A total of 34,000 children, in the words of a Daily Mail report, were “effectively classed as bigots because of anti-bullying rules.” The reports, which schools are forced to file with government education officials, are maintained when children move up grades or transfer schools, and could theoretically be accessed by a future employer or university.
Originally posted by lonewolf19792000
I can get onboard with this idea! Bullying is harrassment and if any adult engaged in such behavior they'd soon be having police banging on their doors for domestic disturbance. We need to start holding these kids responsible for the same laws adults are held responsible for. Learning to be a good american starts in childhood. Its hard enough for children to concentrate on school work and making good grades when they are worried about some insolent asshole making fun of them, picking on them and ostracising them. This bullying has got to stop, kids see no way out of their misery except for taking a pistol and blowing their brains all over the place because they are hurting and in misery.
When i was a child my grades suffered all throughout my school years because i was bullied on a daily basis and even i thought about taking one of my grandfathers shotguns and killing the bastards that wouldn't let me have peace. I never did that option because i knew none of those bullies were worth my landing in prison, but some kids don't have the option of being able to freely talk about their feelings because they are constantly on the defensive expecting an attack to come from any direction. We as adults need to derail this train of hate and bigotry and harrassment. Bullying IS a hatecrime and we need to use our power to vote to make this indecent and unacceptable behavior illegal.
You know it's an Illuminati psy-op when local, state and federal governments, celebrities and the mass media all pick up on it in a coordinated fashion. The "psy-op" is "bullying." Supposedly it's an epidemic. The Obama administration "estimates that bullying affects 13 million students, or about a third of those attending school." One-third of all children attending school? Have you ever heard such nonsense in your life?
But "Bullying" is not the real issue here. "Bullying" is a euphemism for something else, non-acceptance of homosexuality. Gay kids are being portrayed as a persecuted minority. Anyone who takes exception to the media and government drive to make us all experiment with homosexuality is being set up as a "bully" or "hater." "Lady" Gag wants to make "bullying" a "hate crime." Anyone who turns down a homosexual overture will be suspected of "hate." Did you know many homosexuals prefer heterosexuals? They don't like rejection. Watch the report on ABC News Dec. 6. It was about how satanist slut Lady Gaga is going to the White House to discuss bullying. But it quickly emerges that bullying isn't the problem, resistance to homosexuality is.
Don't be fooled. "Bullying" is really about heterosexuals being coerced to have gay sex. Bullying is the media and government perverts and traitors bullying you.