posted on Sep, 26 2011 @ 05:25 PM
I can't shake the fact of what this world has quickly become, an overpopulated wasteland full of vice and iniquity. I blame parenting, more and more
adults are becoming diagnosed with something called RAD Reactive Attachment Disorder. An attachment disorder is usually seen in children who have been
neglected in some fasion by their parental figures, where the detached individual becomes emotionless and empathetic. This carries on into youth and
adulthood, with an increasing likeliness of a young unintended pregnancy, increasing the chance that the unintended child will suffer from the same
disorder. In adults it can ruin relationships through a lack of emotional values, either through infidelity or through excessive paranoia regarding
the later. This disorder can only spread in these emotionally difficult times, and I see a very cold, untrustworthy future for humankind, the
atrocities of todays and yesterdays do not settle without some impact on the future. I think we are at the pinacle of history, and although we have
seen the devastation caused by our conflicts and malicous intenders throughout history leading to this point, I do believe we reside in the purest of
As fallacious as technology may seem to those of us capable of faithing reality, it does provide us with the greatest advantage had to oppose the
discord running rampant throughout society. It allows for injustices and degregation throughout the world to be brought to the attention of those who
can and would make a difference for those oppressed. It begins in the home, these days when gender lines are evaporating, along with the newfound
freedoms and rights for women comes an increase in responsibility and higher expectations for those women to become selfsufficient. These added
stresses have overwhelmed the female population, by disintegrating the very function and values that have been naturally instilled into the female
psyche and physique.
Women do not react or think like men therefore their interpretation of existence would not be equal to a mans' contextually speaking. Their views
would not be less equal on any account either, instead it should be viewed as just the divergence in society.
We should push towards a partition of sorts in matters involving both sexes, as in that true gender equality can be described as the complete lack of
oppression to an unbiased representation of the opposite gender as a whole, and not the misconception that opposing sexes are equal to and parallel
each other in every manifestation possible. To assume the later is approaching gender unequally, with that one could state that if a women is equal to
a man than a women should be able to compete with a man, and a man should be able to compete with a women on any occasion and both will retain the
same statistical odds of accomplishing the the task at hand. If this is true, then stating that a man can and should give birth to children, is also
true, but we can all conclude that it is, in reality, false.
Another example using childbirth is the notion that married women who have children are expected to provide a portion of finance for the household,
especially as of lately, if they do not, they are viewed as betrayers of the feminist movement, or as lazy and inconsiderate to her spouses
providence. This has added responsibility to the woman in this context, and while erasing crucial nurturing time, it also seperates children from that
ever so important maternal figure. It also leads to stresses that can cause infidelity, or may emasculate the faternal figure in the family setting by
instilling this need to provide more so that his spouse may leave the workforce to reunite with her life at home.
Gender equality and women's rights are a great motivating force towards true equality, but I feel that the fundementals in these movements are
flawed, and that feminism instead of promoting equality of women WITH men in a manner of respect, admiration, and morality, it mistakenly promotes
equality of women TO men in a manner of power, responsibility, and dominance. For equality to exist there must be a loss to both groups and a gain for
both groups. Women will never be fully integrated with me,n instead the sexes will have to rest on compromise in settling disputes, but with a firm
understanding that both parties have availible to themselves specific rights that ensure that their opinions are heard and decided upon with unbiased
If this is not understood we will continue down a tormenting path of blatant disrespect for any value the opposite sex has, men will view women as the
mistress and temptress, whereas the women will view the man as the en-captor and abuser. These critiques will then continue to be evident in society
and all the more prevalent, the mistreatment of men by women and women by men based solely on gender must stop.
We must difine the roles of each sex in the family unit, because the family unit is dying and with it goes the ability to truly love and trust one
another, our kids are growing up abused and neglected without choice, brought into the condition without choice, and often react to the mistreatment
in a negative manner leaving them troubled, angry, and alone, to which they have no choice.
But you as an adult, as a spouse in a relationship, as a father, or as a mother, and both as parental beings, you do have a choice to love, love
eachother and to love your creation, because your impact on the world cannot be determined until your children begin making the choices you have
prepared them for, and how well you prepare them determines whether you suceeded or failed. For those who have no children of their own, it is up to
you to provide where so many have neglected, it is your responsibility to the future of our race to mentor and care, because the children have no
choice, the choice has been passed to all of you to make. Its as easy as love, help save love before its extinction and eradication.
You can make easy decisions your whole life, they are hastened, and so cheap are the rewards, but the decisions you value and invest time debating,
the hard decisions to make, they are the ones that reap rewards of unimaginable wealth. Trust me, ask any heroin addict if it's easy to quit, it's
easier to stay addicted, and the reward is a quick death and an uneventfully short life, but beating the addiction fills you with the confidence to
accomplish your wildest dreams, and restores health and life, but it isn't easy...
I found the love, it's here in the truth, it does not make you feeble, the truth makes you stronger, the truth is discovering yourself and molding
who you want to be in this world, and not giving in to who your expected to be.