I think I know what the OP is trying to say.
For a long time I was one of those that would take someone's word on these kind of things, because my life had no purpose, no meaning.
I was a very empty and unfulfilled person.
I'm still open minded, I listen to them, and if it feels right in my heart I will perhaps believe what they have to say.
Discernment.
You cannot be discerning about things like this, when you're just waiting for an opportunity to give your life meaning by ''outside'' means.
All the good stuff comes from within... Happiness comes from within.
If you're the spiritual sort, like me, I advise you to start meditating, do some ''research'' on a healthy diet... these things increased my
potential happiness.
Most of all, listen to your heart.
My mind was always trying to find fulfillment outside of itself, but in the end, the joy, peace and happiness sprang from within.
It is my sincere hope that people will start finding true, lasting happiness, instead of the shallow and temporary kind from outside sources.
All the best